ok so let me start out as this Im with a guy that i really dont have feeling for. what should I do? I broke up with him once but my friends who set me up with him got all mad at me for it so I didnt want our friendship to end so I got back together with him. But now I like this other guy which by the way he is amazing. Anyways so now im going out with someone I dont like. All i have to say is whats the point nd going out with someone you dont like? I personally think its a waste of time. Im rethinking of going out with him Im going to break up with him but look at all who would be dissapointed and hes a really sweet guy but what can i loose except for a couple of friends right?
2007-02-24 05:45:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't go out with a guy you don't really like. Life is too short!!!
2007-02-24 05:49:16 · answer #1 · answered by John Timothy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't concentrate on making everyone else happy around you. Somtimes you have to do what's best for yourself and if that isn't what other people around you want, then perhaps they aren't very good friends. You're the only one who can decide, ultimatly, what's best for yourself. It isn't fair to yourself or the person you're dating right now if both of you aren't equally enthralled with your relationship. This other person may be giving you the 'grass is greener' syndrome but may also give you the insight to realize that the relationship that you're in right now just may not be right for you. It's never too late to change your mind and go with your gut. I say cut your losses while you're ahead. Life's short. If the person you're dating doesn't make you happier than you'd be without them, then move on. Good luck!
2007-02-24 14:00:43 · answer #2 · answered by Lissa_kay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think dating at your age is a waste of time. you're young, I can tell by the you talk and the situation has "middle-school drama" written all over it.
If you don't like him, brake up with him, if your friend hates you for it then she's not a real friend. just tell her you didn't like him and thank her for trying to help you get a relationship. It's not any ones fault it didn't work out, it just didn't.
2007-02-24 13:53:47 · answer #3 · answered by huhyftcgbjhu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to your friends about it! tell them that you don't want to lose them as frinds but u really don't want to b with this guy! dump him in the nicest possible way and if your mates are mean to you then they don't deserve your friendship!!!!!
2007-02-24 13:51:20 · answer #4 · answered by baby_pink_tortoise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously? If you don't love him, don't want to be with him, love someone else, and are only with him to please your "friends" --- break up. If your friends aren't happy, tell them that they aren't the ones who have to kiss him and pretend to be happy. If they still aren't happy, get new friends!
It's your life..
2007-02-24 13:50:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋