I met my boyfriend in aug. we had been talking until october then he asked me to be his gf I said no like the first 4 times then i finally said yes on oct. 25. Then he stopped talking to me really ,we went from talking everyday to like once a week.
then all of a sudden he calls me on christmas and tells me he loves me, i say it back even though i was planning on breakup with him
now he calls more and i see him a lot more everytime i talk to him he always tells me he loves me but he didnt even call me on valentines day.
I wanna break up with him but he is making it hard because he always says i love u and i end up saying it back.
i asked him does he know what a relationship is and does he want one with me and he says yes and he dosent want to leave me and he dosent want me to leave him. when he says he loves me and i say it back i think he means it and i mean it to but i still want to break up with him.
ooh and one night i got drunk and got his name tattooed on me
2007-02-24 05:45:00 · 10 answers · asked by Hello!!!! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know with this guy, it sounds like he might have a few issues to work out. I don't see a huge problem with the I love you thing. It wasn't but about 3 months after me and my girl got together that I told her, and everything was fine. Other then that, this guy might just be damaged and need some repairing.
2007-02-24 05:51:14 · answer #1 · answered by mighty1981mouse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to just take sometime and think why don't you like him and why do you like him. then you need to tell him that your not sure if you love him or that and maybe you all need to slow down until you can find out if with him is where you really want to be and just remember you are in control of the relationship if you tell him what you want right now it seems like he is in control.You have to remember he is a man and men tend to forget things if its not sports or a naked woman so valentines day it just was not important to him not because of you just because he is a man so you just address the issue that he missed it and move on its no need to stand in the past.
2007-02-24 05:58:15 · answer #2 · answered by LuckyLadyL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So are you asking is it weird for him to say "I love you" after two months? Or is it weird for you to be saying it back even though you claim you want to break up with him? If you want to break up with him why did you get his name tattooed on yourself?
It's very difficult to answer your question because it's hard to know what you're really asking. I don't think he's weird for saying he loves you after two months, sometimes people know that quickly. I do think that if you want to break up with him you need to stop leading him on and telling him that you love him.
2007-02-24 05:51:45 · answer #3 · answered by pookieb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you do unlike him, do not say it. Its in basic terms deceptive. i'd breakup with him superb away particularly of letting this drag on. additionally, i don't think of its ever to early to assert you like somebody rather in case you do yet on his habit of exhibiting up and disappearing and not even being there on Valentines day leads me to have confidence that this guy isn't superb for you and you'd be able to do lots extra effective.
2016-10-16 09:48:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not weird to say i love u after 2 months but anyway just break up with him in a nice way so he doesn't get to hert.
2007-02-24 05:53:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not weird if you mean it. But you obviously don't, so stop saying it and break up. I don't think he's that into you given your indications.
Oh and stop drinking and getting tatoos.
2007-02-24 05:53:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES and since your the you shouldn't say it first and the tattoo was not a good idea!
2007-02-24 05:49:24 · answer #7 · answered by Total_Pineapple_forever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oops. Drinking and tattoo parlors never mix well.
2007-02-24 05:49:12 · answer #8 · answered by El Gringo 237 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 one i think that he is cheatin on you to keek it real i mean how busy could you be on the love holday not to call you tell him to get lost
2007-02-24 05:50:45 · answer #9 · answered by latisha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT IF YOU REALLY LOVE HIM.
I FELL IN LOVE WITH MY NOW HUSBAND AFTER ABOUT 3 WEEKS OF DATING HIM.
11YEARS LATER AND WE ARE STILL IN LOVE!!!!!!!
2007-02-24 05:49:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋