How do I tell a man that Iv known for a long time, and been just his good friend, that I want to be more then just friends? We met 9 months ago and we wanted to date then but our work schedules didnt allow us to. Now after not seeing eachother for like 3months, and only talking on the phone, we hung out last night and I realized that I care about him alot. I love his family and who he is. I think that every dream he has in life is amazing. I just dont know how to tell him with out hurting our friendship if he says no. So I need some ideas on how to tell him??
2007-02-24 05:43:47 · 4 answers · asked by Content 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hold on to that friendship because even if things develop you would still need that.....
While talking to him, you could casually mention he has nice eyes, mouth...features ...whatever...kind of flirt with him....
When you guys laugh kind nudge a bit against him...and stuff...let him make the first move...whatever you do...do not come out and say anything yet...a lot of guys will tell you;;;just go up to him and tell him...for the ladies it really takes work and effort...
Be feminine...and sexy...without showing too much body....
2007-03-04 05:50:25 · answer #1 · answered by Ariana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you have known him for a long time and that you respect the decision you two have made to be friends and you in no way want to lose that, but you have had feelings recently that are not quite friendly and you would like to see if there is more to the relationship.
2007-02-24 13:50:15 · answer #2 · answered by Jillie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you care alot for him. Ask him if you 2 could go out sometimes for coffee or whatever. Tell him also, that if he is not interested, to please tell you so you will no where you stand, and that there is no hard feelings if he is not interested. You might have a pleasant surprise.
2007-03-04 12:52:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl he probably already know.....Men are not as dumb as they act (in some cases) ........if you are scared to put yourself out there like that......wait for him to make the first move,..... but don't wait too long.
2007-03-04 13:27:01 · answer #4 · answered by Miss G. H. Etto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋