She doesn't let me stay out late hanging out with my friends. Whenever I'm out she calls my cell phone constantly, and I have a car that she said I can only drive to certain places. What could I do let her let me have some fun in my life?
2007-02-24 05:10:39 · 8 answers · asked by MistahFab21 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
advicing you will be telling a story to a wall..
all i can say is that in a future day
when you have a sweet girl of your own. you will be concerned and impose restrictions.for her safty and wellbeing
your daughter might think the same way you think now.
its all for you.
the power of being a parent is no power its actually fully love.
2007-02-24 05:15:07 · answer #1 · answered by Blistika Barnacles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her how you feel about this. Explain to her that your other friends are allowed more freedom and that you would like a little more. You will probably not get as much as everyone else, but she will definetly loosen up a bit. Some stuff she will never change her mind on, but the two of you can compromise on some of the other issues. Agree to show her that you can be responsible in turn for letting you act more independantly.
2007-02-24 13:16:24 · answer #2 · answered by coolio121 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely let her know how you feel about it. Some parents are very strict and uptight because they fear what may happen to their kids. So maybe she won't change her ways. However, you are 18 (or almost 18) so once you are an adult, you should make a plan to move out. If you are going to college, live on campus. Otherwise, make a plan to get a full time job when you graduate and get your own place. Problem solved!
2007-02-24 13:29:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just lay it on the line, tell your mom you are not a child but a young woman and will no longer tolerate being treated as such. If she does not let you spread your wings you may have to do so for your own sake against her wishes.
2007-02-24 13:24:17 · answer #4 · answered by badmikey4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents are that way. Moms know you are going to be an adult ,soon.. And she knows you be on your own. So she wants to hang on to you as long as she can. Because she will not be able to protect you, or watch over you. She's afraid of what might happen to you. All parents do, who care about their children.
2007-02-24 15:31:33 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I can see your mom really loves and cares about you. She doesn't want to see you get hurt. If you feel that your mom is treating you this way, you should sit down and talk with her about it. When you talk to her, don't do it in a hostile way, but just have a nice, calm, child to parent conversation.
2007-02-24 13:31:20 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Ms. Allison♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come off it! Its just her way of expresssing her love. Of course it must be extremely irritating but try and chill!
2007-02-24 13:37:53 · answer #7 · answered by rpr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it anyway..or stand up to her and say im older and you have to let me go..and if you dont its gonna be your fault im not listening to you..bcuz shes actually pushing to do things..when she could be letting you..your not a baby..and if your 18 you can do whatever u want :)
2007-02-24 13:16:18 · answer #8 · answered by kdm :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋