There is this guy, and him and i dated my 8th grade yr. the summer before my freshman yr. and my freshman yr. and everytime we broke up im the one that broke up with him. Well now im a sophomore in high school, and he has a girlfriend, everytime i see them together i get totally jealous, and he knows this. And i have found that i still like him alot. And he knows this too, because his best friend told him. His girlfriend and i hate each other (btw) I just dont know what to do, i dont know if i should try and get over him, or if i should try and win him back. Any help would be appreciated.
2007-02-24 05:10:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have a classic case of "I don't want him but I want him to chase me and want ME" Don't worry, it will pass. But, in the meantime keep reminding yourself EXACTLY WHY YOU kept breaking up with HIM..... everytime you hear yourself say something like, "he didn't do this right.... BUT.... STOP yourself.... no "buts" in life...... you'll be just fine without him
2007-02-24 05:41:04 · answer #1 · answered by cali 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you might be idealizing what you had with him. When we break-up with someone we tend to remember only the good stuff after awhile. There were reasons why you broke up with them. Try to remember.
Also, you did like him once and those reasons probably still exist. If you really like someone the feelings should always be there but the sad truth is even if we care sometimes it was never meant to be and since you kept breaking-up with him then that might be the case.
Finally, he is with someone and if he is with someone and flirts or get involved with you then he is a jerk who will do the same to you and you don't want that.
Be his friend and appologize to the girl. You probably are only fighting cause of the guy and that is silly. Since he dated both of you at some time you probably have things in common that yould make you good friends.
Wait and move on. IF he does break-up with this woman then see what happens but until then you should allow yourself to be with other people. Explore. the best way to get ovewr someone is with someone else. you are probably just alone right now and so are thinking about past relationships. you need to hit the scene!
2007-02-24 13:21:31 · answer #2 · answered by Don Quesadia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at the history. Even if you did win him back you'd probly just wind up breaking up with him again. I think you just need to go ahead and move on. He couldn't have been all that great if you couldn't make up your mind about him, unles it was all just a big game to you. I'd say move on and find someone else. Just don't have the on and off thing anymore, that'll kind of ruin a guy that wants anything to do with you.
2007-02-24 13:43:28 · answer #3 · answered by mighty1981mouse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it up
2007-02-24 13:13:26 · answer #4 · answered by Paul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋