2007-02-24 04:52:46 · 12 answers · asked by Advice Please 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
i think so because u are faced with a major life change and that puts anyone on pins and needles, you however seem totally freaked out by settin a date as I figured from your other questions, so I think you 2 need to talk and ask each other if this is really right for ya, not us...
2007-02-24 07:24:21 · answer #1 · answered by ASH 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YES YES! The same thing happened when I was engaged. All of my friends had the same issue. (We once got into a huge fight about what can opener was best....) I think its probably the stress and the fact that your relationship is changing. Talk about it with each other - that helps. And laugh! Have fun with each other - do things together and don't talk about the wedding. Stick it out - beleive me. Its worth it in the end, and after your wedding, it will be over. We fought over stupid stuff, as I said, and now we have a great marriage. As do my friends we went through engagements. There's a light at the end of the tunnel!!! Good luck! And congrats!!!
2007-02-24 05:01:35 · answer #2 · answered by mizkayte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 21:36:05 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is normal, just like at any other stage of your relationship. Especially if you both are stressed out over wedding preparations. The stress usually spills over to other things.
Take heart, and always make up at the end of a fight.
Congratulations on your engagement! Keep smiling!
2007-02-24 05:02:29 · answer #4 · answered by Lady_Lawyer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is! I am engaged too and my Fiance and I argue all the time,about anything and everything. Even things that he used to do that didnt bother me before bothers me now. Sometimes we get so mad at each other I wonder why he proposed? but in the end, I know that i love him more than anything and that even though we get on each other's case about everything, it would be so hard to imagine my life without him. Stressful times, good luck!
2007-02-24 08:13:18 · answer #5 · answered by shor_tee81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, yes. Actually, it's common to be annoyed past engagement and the wedding and into the rest of your life, I think. FI you expect it and learn to love him despite it, true love will help you to learn to love him almost *for* it. Almost. It's part of who you chose to marry. Pretty soon, the annoyance will pass, but it never entirely goes away. It just starts to not matter.
It helps to remember he probably feels the same way about you.
2007-02-24 05:05:19 · answer #6 · answered by SpisterMooner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really hope so, because my fiance and I argue of completely stupid stuff now. I think that's rather normal though. It could be that you are both stressed out with the work that's going to come with planning your wedding.
It'll all get better! :)
2007-02-24 04:59:42 · answer #7 · answered by Kass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a stressful time... totally normal. Just try not to say anything you will "wish you hadn't."
2007-02-24 05:00:47 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think so this is usually a time of bliss maybe there is a problem the two of you are not talking about and so it comes out as anger.
2007-02-24 05:55:24 · answer #9 · answered by Nora 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
i think so, thats the way its been with my fiance and me
2007-02-24 05:25:19 · answer #10 · answered by scarlett13854 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋