ok so i have a boyfriend right now and 3 months ago I broke up with my ex boyfriend but i still kinda have feelings for him but i dont want to....what should i do?
2007-02-24 04:36:05 · 13 answers · asked by Audrey♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Which means you and your ex must have something left undone or unsaid...And it is going more difficult day by day if both of you didn't meet up and try to resolve it soon, and this unresolve matter is the key ingredient of why you still have feelings for him until now...
2007-02-24 04:40:46 · answer #1 · answered by syooq 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i have been in that situation a few times.. you really have to think about what you want.. because if this ew guy is better for you than you should try to forget about your, which i'm sure you have been doing, but think about all the stuff you hate about your ex and stuff that really pisses you offf about him, don't think about your good times, don't forget them though, but for now, if you really want to get over him, avoid contact and think about all things that he has done to you that go you really mad, and think about all the good things and how sweet your new bf is.. by doing this you'll realize that this new guy is much much better for you.. but it might be the other way around, i don't have very many details on your previous relationship so it's hard to say.. but don't ruin something you have over something that 's in the past and that should stay there, trust me you'll regret it so much.. but if you really really love your ex.. well think about more deeply but if you know that the decision you had made was right in the first place well try and forget about him, no matter how hard this may seem, i wish you the best of luck!
2007-02-24 12:44:23 · answer #2 · answered by tashii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take stock of what you really want in a guy, because right now, you don't know what you want.
There's a saying that goes, "You don;t know what you had until you lose it." It may apply in your case, if you hastily broke up with your ex. Or, if you had good reason to break it off, then you need to get him out of your mind by concentrating on your current boyfriend
2007-02-24 12:42:31 · answer #3 · answered by DrRJP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with this one until you really are sure about your feelings for your ex. It might be that the "grass is greener on the other side", or you forgot why you broke up with him in the first place.
Don't do anything untill you are 100% sure. You might lose both of them otherwise, and end up holding an empty bag.
2007-02-24 12:41:48 · answer #4 · answered by michelebaruch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somethings triggered your "feelings" for your ex..Does he have a new g/friend?? Did you see him and he looks great??
Either way...YOU Have a New boyfriend and hopefully he doesn't see that you still have feelings for your ex* ..Your EX is just that...your ex* and it happend for a reason. Perhaps you have unsolved issues you need to deal with before giving your heart to someone else...You'll get Hurt once again in the long run*~
2007-02-24 12:42:01 · answer #5 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and make sure that you dont see your ex that much and avoid eye contact soon the feelings for him will die down.
2007-02-24 12:38:17 · answer #6 · answered by Rachael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you love your ex? truely love him? is the new guy a rebound? or do you really want to be with him? those are some questions to ask yourself before making any decisions.
2007-02-27 07:40:54 · answer #7 · answered by little lizzy lou lemon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are playing with fire. Make up your mind its not your heart, its your mind. Don't cheat thats the worse thing to do, but remember you leave the one that loves you for the one you like, and the one that likes you leaves you for the one they like.
2007-02-24 12:39:26 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep reminding yourself why you broke up with him in the first place!!!!
2007-02-24 12:43:07 · answer #9 · answered by Kayla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look forward to ur self if u left the other one u have to let them free.. talk to ur X maybe he still loves u..and the current bf talk to him too.. one of them u have to left. love is not a game..
2007-02-24 12:40:49 · answer #10 · answered by lene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋