ok..what to do??????

Question

ok, well i'm dating this boy. keep in mind we're both only 13.
we've been dating for a year and a half and we are by no means in love. but we definitely really like each other and as far as love goes, we...puppy love each other. whatever teenage love is, we have it. but...
he calls me names, laughs at my pain (physical and emotional) is really immature, tells me im stupid, talks to my friends behind my back, but then when he wants to be sweet, he is.
we go on ski trips and on the ski lift he likes to cuddle and kiss. he stops me when i'm walking around just to kiss me or whisper ur pretty. when we watch movies at his house, he loves to sit with his arms wrapped around me while i fall asleep on his shoulder. he kisses me on the cheek and gives me random hugs ALL THE TIME....we've already broken up once a month or two ago and he cried! at school! he had tears in his eyes in the library! but we're back together because he apologized for being a jerk, but then, he didnt change.

Answer 1

Next time he laughs at you or does something imature that makes you mad, say sarcastically, " I am so lucky to be in this 'mature' relationship! Because of your maturity, I guess I don't have to go out with all these older high school guys who have been asking me out!"

This will make him think he has mature competition, so he will shape up. He seems like a pretty nice guy who cares about you, so try to make it work. Remember that all boys his age are immature, and that girls mature faster than boys. Give him time.

Answer 2

Consider the age, boys at 13 are very immature and you being 13 are still immature but more mature than he is. This sounds like a very serious relationship to be having at your age. Putting age aside you could talk to him about this and work through it. He may change as time goes on if you have the patience to work on your relationship. There is a chance that he will not change though and this could just be a good life experience. You can tell him that you like him a lot and that he really hurts your feelings when he acts like a jerk and you will not put up with it. If he does it again after you talk to him you should break up and make it permanent. If it is meant to be he will eventually realize his mistakes and do his best to win you back.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

You need some confidence- let the loser go. He is obviously crazy, hes hurting you by picking at you and calling you names...why is this ok to you? There is no rational answer to why he does the things he is doing, crying at school, he's got issues. At 13 he cant really stop being a jerk, because he doesnt know how to be a man yet. You need to focus on having good friends, guys and girls, and not really try to have a boyfriend. You are 13! Slow down a little and enjoy life.

Answer 5

If the fact that he didn't change bugs you then you should tell him about it. Keeping it from him will only make you unhappy. It seems like he really likes you i dont think you should break up. Tell him how you feel about how he's treating you and if he doesn't change this time then ditch him. If he really likes you or "puppy loves" you then he wouldn't do anything to hurt you. If anything he'd make sure that's the last thing he ever does to you. Mabye he thinks you dont mind or he's just trying to be funny and playful. Most 13 year old boys are at the jerk age it just comes with it. You both are starting to see what you like about boys and girls.

Answer 6

At 13* you're not InLove*...you are "curious" and "exploring" different feelings.
This boy is not the boy for you..to make fun of you, call you names, laughs at you when in emotional or physical pain..When you two get into another tiff and break up cuz he's being a "jerk"..tell him it's time to be just friends as you want to spend time with someone who has Respect for you*
GOodlucK
Keep on SMilin*

Answer 7

awwwwwwwwww puppy love how cuuuuuuuuute i remember those days..... how was he a jerk? and you uys at that age ARE jerks i can say from past experiences feeling things you both prpbably never felt before and having to go thru break ups.. at that age yeah tuff... but yeah you need to tell him thast if you and him are ever gonna work hes gotta get his game face on and no more of that " being a jerk" crap.....tell him how it made you feel you know guys are clueless when it comes to how girls feel act all that crap... tell him and he reallie cares about you then hell do it...good luck

Answer 8

my old boyfriend used to do that. until he realised how much it actually hurt me. now we're grown up (18 and 19) and we still love eachother.

he needs to realise that you are not going to stick around unless he changes, because what he has at the moment is power. take the power from him. (I hope this made sense)

Answer 9

There will be plenty of life to learn these things when u complete ur education.

Answer 10

u r a paedophiliac