I'm a loner and could be considered a bit emo, and I have trouble connecting with people due to childhood trauma that I don't really remember. There was this one girl though who liked me, though I didn't like her so much, since she was annoying and had slept with my rival.
But eventually some conflict broke out and somehow she ended up in a coma. At that point I almost instantly changed from being annoyed with her to being in love with her. But now she's in a coma, and there's nothing I can do. This is the first time I've ever actually loved someone, and now she's helpless and I can't think of anything to do.
Please help me decide what to do. Otherwise, whatever.
2007-02-24 04:23:30 · 14 answers · asked by Mega64 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look on the positive. You will never hear "not tonight, I have a headache".
2007-02-24 04:33:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can say I understand what you're saying even though it's never happened to me. But, it is kind of weird that it goes from not liking her so much, to LOVING her (it's a strong word :] ). Are you sure you would've loved her so much as you say you do if she would've been okay? Do you think you feel guilty for thinking she was annoying at first? Maybe you just like her...
I wouldn't really say I love someone when I don't know them. It doesn't sound like you really knew her. Maybe it's because you know that loving her would make her happy, that you're assuming you love her that much. Think about it a little bit more and don't listen to the first guy who answered your question. Suicide should NEVER be an option, kay? :)
Try to talk to her family members, tell them a little side of your story and maybe you can arrange a visit to see her.
2007-02-24 12:30:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just want to feel like someone likes you and you are not a loner. before she was in the coma you didn't like her cause she liked you and that made you feel good about yourself. now you have no one you know that likes you and you feel like a loner again. well at least if she comes out of the coma be a friend to her. Just remember(i know from personal experience) that if and when she comes out of the coma she probably isn't going to be the same person that u remember. she might not remember who you are.
2007-02-24 12:31:40 · answer #3 · answered by aspen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A coma is only on the surface. It just like a close door. There is full life behind the close door. Try to connect with the beautiful Angel behind the close door.
2007-02-24 12:31:33 · answer #4 · answered by JEEVA 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Write her a letter, and leave it at the hospital for her to read when she wakes up. Give it to one of her family members. If you can, go and sit at the hospital with her sometimes. Just because she's in a coma, doesn't mean she really can't feel or hear at all.
2007-02-24 12:30:01 · answer #5 · answered by ranchgirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U have to get over this.Im sorry to have burst your bubble...but hun..life is harder than it seems.Im not saying that she wont get out of the coma..perhaps she would..But maybe u would then realise that she's not the person u thought she is.It is very easy to imagine a virtual relationship..but reality is much much harder.Get over it...go out and see the real worls..make lots of friends..have fun.enjoy life in the right way...meanwhile..u can still be friends with her!good luck:)
2007-02-24 12:36:15 · answer #6 · answered by Beautiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first answerer is right..you need to pull her plug and then kill yourself..or you can stop being such a mopy little ***** try to find some joy in life and maybe you won't have to find love with a girl in a coma
2007-02-24 12:32:13 · answer #7 · answered by Devon T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe you feel you are in love with her because she doesn't pose an emotional threat to you. Once she was in a coma, she was "safe". I think you should re-evaluate whether you really love her or if you like the safety of her coma.
2007-02-24 12:30:11 · answer #8 · answered by crystal_lynn_79 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should be absolutely happy that she is in a coma. Women are so talkative and never seem to give you any peace and quiet. Your dreamgirl is in a coma and is giving you peace and quiet. Lucky guy. Good times!!!
2007-02-24 12:33:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, you should try to identify why it is your feelings have changed so radically. Is it just that you feel very sorry for her for what happened or is it something more? Good luck
2007-02-24 12:29:17 · answer #10 · answered by Lady Glass 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋