How do I get a guy to like me without it seeming ovious that I like him??? Cause I really like this guy and we don't talk that much because I'm afraid that i won't know what to say and stuff. We had a previous relationship for 3 months, and it didn't work out. But i really still like him. I need help with this...
2007-02-24 04:22:21 · 11 answers · asked by Chickadee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You cannot simply make someone like you. end of story..
What you can do is throw yourself out there and hope that he does like you and hope that he likes you for who you are.. And to accomplish this, first you must get the balls to say, "hey, lets go see a movie." Or something. If it doesnt work out then BELIEVE ME.. with a little bit of time and effort you WILL find someone unbelievable who will love you unconditionally for much longer then 3 months.
:) good luck.
2007-02-24 04:29:05 · answer #1 · answered by -cheree- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chikadee,
You don't want to GET a guy to like you, let it HAPPEN naturally!
You say you and the guy don't talk much, WELL, start talking more and don't be afraid of WHAT TO SAY, you will know what to say when you are around him! I keep telling others not to "get ahead" of themselves............... and like you, many ARE doing this! The relationship won't go well if you start on WORRYING early on in the friendship! OK?
So what that you had a previous relationship! You can start over fresh!!!!!!
Keep the "lines of communication" open and you will both reach an understanding, TRUST ME!
2007-02-24 04:30:26 · answer #2 · answered by julesrules 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"We had a previous relationship for 3 months and it didn't work out." End of story. You said it yourself. "It didn't work out," you said and it isn't going to "work out." You just don't have a followup and you are actually willing to humiliate yourself out of desperation. He would be a fool to fall. You can still really like him but you can't have him. Remember why it didn't work out? Or has that faded with a short period of time? Move on but move on slow but accomplish something in the meantime. Good luck.
2007-02-24 04:31:06 · answer #3 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best way to geta guys attention is to ignorehim!!!
or u could try to move around freely like u do wid other ppl
start a general disscussin and try todo thing she likesvery much!!!!
but u say ur relationship previously did not work out??!!!
it works out better if u do ur work and ignore him!!!!
2007-02-24 04:31:49 · answer #4 · answered by ~~mruthyu~~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he was into you you would prob. still be together. and anyway, you shouldnt be in a relationship with someone you are uncomfortable talking to!!!! when you find someone you can talk to and hang out with and be yourself around you've found the right guy for you.
2007-02-24 04:26:24 · answer #5 · answered by imnotachickenyoureaturkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over him. cz u r nt being urself as ur so worried abt wht is he gonna think abt u. dont u think its time to move on? its hard bt gv urself a chance. gd luck.
2007-02-24 04:28:58 · answer #6 · answered by Gayathri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys wont respond unless they get the hint you like them. So flirt and make it obvious
2007-02-24 04:25:39 · answer #7 · answered by barbie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u cant be yourself and say stupid things around him he probably isnt the guy for you. maybe just be friends for now and see what happens
2007-02-24 04:26:07 · answer #8 · answered by aspen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him some brownies.TELL him thinking of u today. HOPE YOUR ok.
2007-02-24 04:27:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's exactly what i'm stuggling through...
2007-02-24 04:25:55 · answer #10 · answered by soccer allie <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋