I'd been with this girl for almost 4 years and we ended things about a month ago. She told me she did not want me in her life right now which I totally understand b/c I'd put her through a lot of hell b/c I couldn't be honest with her. It took a lot for me to realize that I truly didn't love myself enough and I had a lot of past family issues and self issues that I did not want to deal with that I have finally forgiven them for and have let go of the burden and gave the problem to God. In which I truly feel my life has direction and purpose and I am truly happy for the first time.
I'd written my ex a letter telling her that I wish her the best in life and hope that one day she will be able to truly forgive me and we be able to have some sort of friendship. If I have truly changed and she truly forgives me (ie. is able to not bring up the past and hold it over my head which means she would also have to change and allow me to change) is it possible for us to have a relationship again?
2007-02-24 04:20:07 · 6 answers · asked by so_sincere 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ooooooooooh tricky.... sounds like youre reallie making an affort in changing your life around so IMPRESSED.. wish MY ex would do that hahaha but anyways.... uhmmm... i guess it would work but it takes a LOT and i mean A LOT of work which is why they say getting back together never usually works out cuz somehow SOMEONE brings up the past and you know you can never look forward if you keep lookin back to making a conscious effort to stick to the present and not the past is definitely a hard one to do. and you know i hate to point it out you put her thru hell and yall were together ofr a DANG LONG TIME... so shes pretty hurt cuz of that and it wont take over night for her to realize that it wont even do it in a letter...to HER your actions speak ten times louder than whatever you have to say on paper.....its possible to be able to stay in the same room and NOT WANT TO KILL EACH other and bring up old CRAP... but thats takes a lot of time and erffort for BOTH people see not only YOU have to be willing... so does she.... good luck with you....
2007-02-24 04:30:54 · answer #1 · answered by ree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 19:57:20 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If You Both Truly Love Each Other Then Why Not? Break Up Are The Part Of THe Relationship That Makes It Stronger Because THen You No What Not To Do And What To Do Hope Ive Helped?x
2007-02-24 04:24:56 · answer #3 · answered by chloeebee_x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi . yes if u have truly changed and u are really ready to do better with this girl u should . true love means no matter what u two will love each other and stick together so if u really love her you should get back together
2007-02-24 04:28:04 · answer #4 · answered by danasherree 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i may sound cheesy ... but if it was meant to b u guys will get back together i wish u luck =0)
2007-02-24 04:26:53 · answer #5 · answered by i luv penguins =0p 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** NO!
**** HER!
SHES PROBABLY SLEEPING AROUND WITH A 50yr OLD VIRGIN!!!! FIND SOMEONE BETTER!=D
2007-02-24 04:23:24 · answer #6 · answered by babygurlika 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋