Would you rather Marry someone who is totally in Love with you.. When you don't feel the same way ... Or perhaps wait for someone who you are so deeply in love with hoping that they would some day feel the same way about you?
2007-02-24 04:14:54 · 14 answers · asked by julia1975 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. Why on earth would you marry someone you didn't love? I'm sure that person would be very angry if you married them other than love. It would hurt, but at least you wouldn't waste their life based on something they thought was true. It's best to find someone who is in love with you and those feelings are requited. And with 6 billion people in this world, the chances are pretty good, I believe.
2007-02-24 04:25:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would rather be in love with someone and hope they feel the same about me. I have married with no love, and also married when there seemed to be much love. Both ended.
I would rather live with someone I feel something about, maybe not love, rather than marrying them and having to go through another divorce.
2007-02-24 04:32:09 · answer #2 · answered by Nepetarias 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry someone you love, care for, and are attracted too. Just marrying somebody just because they love you, yet you do not feel the same, would be a terrible situation! Marriage isnt a game, and marriage isnt for people who arent serious. Wait for that special someone ! Trust me, its hard and a long road ahead, but it will be worth it!
2007-02-24 04:17:49 · answer #3 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt marry the guy who is in love with me because then I would be making one of the biggest mistakes of my life. I might wait for the other guy, but if nothing happened for a long time then I would just move on.
2007-02-24 04:18:37 · answer #4 · answered by Lily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry someone who is totally in love with me. That way if things go wrong ( which is not uncommon now a day) I wouldn't be too heart broken. I know that might sound terrible.
2007-02-24 04:18:24 · answer #5 · answered by sunnysky4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would only marry someone if I were deeply in love with them. And I would only be with someone who loved me just as much as I loved them. Marrying someone you don't love or someone who doesn't love you as much as you love them will only end in divorce and a mess too big to explain. Good luck!
2007-02-24 04:17:38 · answer #6 · answered by poetryprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunatley after many years of being the second example you've given I would rather marry someone who was in love with me. Being on the other end is not fun.
2007-02-24 04:19:11 · answer #7 · answered by keg1889 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not marry someone that i didnt love myself and i wouldnt be with them either because it is wrong to lead them on, wait for someone that you feel strongly about and hope that they like you.
2007-02-24 04:18:17 · answer #8 · answered by Rachael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometime we don't feel The same way because our 6th sense or whatever we call it is telling us there is something missing in the equation. What we see or hear is not always the truth behind. I'll will follow my inner voice
2007-02-24 04:26:13 · answer #9 · answered by JEEVA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could never marry someone that I didn't love, even if they did love me back, because that wouldn't be fair to them. Say you marry the one that you don't love back, and later, you find your 'soulmate'? Then you have to break the heart of the one who realllly loved you. â¥
2007-02-24 04:18:51 · answer #10 · answered by ranchgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋