so this is it. once upon a time, I was single, I aws casually seeing two guys.n I liked one guy over the other, but he wouldn't give me the relationship I wanted. so I started seeing the other guy ...we became really close, I fell in love.. now we're engaged. well the other guy I had liked has since then tried to "win me back" wanting to date. well he has a g/f now...but I've recently found out he playedf many girls (using them for mainly friends with benefits) and I think he may have used me too. I'm curious if he meant the words he said to me recently in trying to win me back were true, or just a way to get "bootie" in a sense. do I have right to callhim out and ask if he truly cared/loved me like he said he did, or should I drop it since I'm engaged?
It just keeps bugging me and I can't help but wonder..not to mention, he's been on my mind lately..like did I make a mistake. please help me..any advice would help...but please keep cruel comments to a minnimum
2007-02-24 04:04:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry it's so long peeps!
2007-02-24 04:04:59 · update #1
of course; follow your senses; he is not for you
guys say anything to get what he wants.
2007-02-24 04:08:36 · answer #1 · answered by dansdna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah its no big dedal to wonder abnout whether or not you made the right decision i do that all the time.... think about it you did like dude number ONE first? then he didnt give you what you wanted ...went on to dude number TWO and now youre engaged... if i can ask were you on some sort of rebound cuz you couldnt have the one you wanted so you went to the one who was available which is probably why youre questioning whether or not you did the right thing and you said so yourself he was a player......theres no oharm in asking whether or not he meant it... if he a true player he will say he meant every word that doesnt mean youll believe him judging from his past. id definitely ask him if its buggin you THAT much and then think if you REALLY are masrrying this dude for the right reasons.....good luck w that one....and YES its ok to ASK...
2007-02-24 04:12:30 · answer #2 · answered by ree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in love as you say, then you wouldn't wonder about other guys. If you think you love the guy you are already with then I suggest dropping the other guy out of your mind. Keep building that foundation upon which you and your fiance will base your life upon. If you do not do this then I believe that in the future you may get divorced because you are thinking of other men instead of the only one you really should be thinking about. Hopefully you get this straightened out.
2007-02-24 04:13:14 · answer #3 · answered by Lixender 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Peace after Drama. To get the drama over with.
2016-05-24 06:00:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He knows you have moved on, so now he wants you. Don't drop your engagement to a good guy for this loser.
2007-02-24 04:10:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should just forget about him .... ur engaged now and like u said u fell in love and nothing else should matter.u don't want to jeopardize what u have with ur man.
2007-02-24 04:11:07 · answer #6 · answered by kyamar06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. does your fiance know about this? the other guy probably wants a discount you have somewhere or just wants the satisfaction of winning you back. how would your fiance feel? i hope i can be somewhat helpful! : )
2007-02-24 04:12:03 · answer #7 · answered by chocolate_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it yourself...he's a player. You're not a trophy to be "won".
Forget him and give your fiance a kiss. Congratulations, by the way.
Blessings
2007-02-24 04:11:14 · answer #8 · answered by Silverwolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop it... the only thing u need to figure out is if the guy you got engaged to is just a rebound...
2007-02-24 04:11:55 · answer #9 · answered by notinthebooks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
things happen 4 a reason. absensce makes the heart grow fonder. If things r ment to be at another time they will. no rush ... b sure .. try harder then.. be careful what you ask for .It might come true..............
2007-02-24 04:11:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just drop it cuz ur married. ...if he was playin alot of other girls then he was prolly playing u as well.
if u or any of ur friends need advice on dating or just need someone to talk to my e-mail address is Darklife_of_love@yahoo.com
2007-02-24 04:11:02 · answer #11 · answered by darkness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋