How come some people just can't trust their own instinct/intuiton? instead, they rather ask strangers for a confirmation whether the guy likes her or not.
I really wonder how far can someone go in life without ever trusting his/her own instincts?
2007-02-24 04:03:26 · 17 answers · asked by hehehe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We learn as we go. My experience has been that the more you ask the more you learn. I love to help people. So no I don't get tired of it. As for instinct, it does come naturally to some but many learn it as they grow. My instinct says let others grow at their own pace in life and hope for the best for them. Be happy that you don't need that reassurance in your life. Have a wonderful day.
2007-02-24 04:13:42 · answer #1 · answered by Dayla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say but not everyone is as bold as you,there are a million reasons why some have difficulty taking that leap of faith,the obvious one being fear of rejection! for someone who is oozing with confidence like yourself,this might be difficult to understand,but try and show a bit of respect none the less
kind regards
2007-02-24 04:20:20 · answer #2 · answered by CHARLIE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Sometimes get sick of these questions, but everyone wants to know. Sometimes answering them isnt so bad. Whenever anyone likes someone they are asking themsleves these questions, they just decide to ask people's advice instead. But it is kind of annoying though. People ask those questions a bazillion times a day.
2007-02-24 04:09:14 · answer #3 · answered by coolio121 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the people who usually post this kind of questions are the young ones. They tend to tend to be very insecure, and sometimes they want to listen to somebody else confirm what they know already know, like a boost of confidence.
2007-02-24 04:08:21 · answer #4 · answered by Loving Life, Always, and Forever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree. I refuse to answer those questions because the way I look at it, if YOU don't know if someone likes you, then how the hell is anyone else supposed to know. We could all guess for the askers, but what value is there in someone else deciding this.
I am sick of it, I like answering questions that help people.
2007-02-24 04:07:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You see the questions I have and Im still unsure about I ask on here with my own ideas already in my head and if people agree good and if not too bad.
2007-02-24 04:27:41 · answer #6 · answered by Rachael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I give out the same advice for all those questions......don't give out your goodies....if he sticks around after a year, he's probably a keeper.....spread your legs like butter and you'll probably end up alone again. Find somebody who wants more than just your goodies.
2007-02-24 04:09:08 · answer #7 · answered by Velociraptor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aren't you going to trust your instincts here to know that many think like you too?
2007-02-24 04:08:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It kind of gets annoying but one every once in a while isn't so bad.
I do agree with insticts. Sometimes I doubt mine. I like a guy but I doubt he will ever like me.
2007-02-24 04:06:17 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah* 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that people are bored so they just ask questions like that because they can't think of anything else. but i wouldn't trust anyone else's opinion especially if they don't even know me or ther person i'm talking bout.
2007-02-24 04:07:09 · answer #10 · answered by hickgirl4ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋