everytime i tell her that i cant help if she dont tell me whats wrong she says i make her feel bad. i dont get mad easily and i always take the calm approach and try to help her with her problems because i do care. but she says that i make her feel like a bad person when she doesnt tell me whats wrong or how she feels. when she says she feels bad i dont no what to do. she says that she is a very complicated person and i tell her that i am really willing to work through any problems that she has but she still doesnt open up. what to do?
2007-02-24 03:38:53 · 9 answers · asked by rick b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she don,t interest your words
2007-02-24 03:42:38 · answer #1 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two thoughts:
1) Why bug her about it? If she wanted to talk, she would. Leave her alone.
2) Her claiming to be a very complicated person instead of "opening up" means she's either a drama queen or you are really getting on her nerves but she is trying to be nice.
2007-02-24 03:43:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your self,do u tell her how U experience? Do U open up 2 her. She would not prefer 2 communicate approximately it in public,so pass someplace and communicate. tell her that u r hectic approximately her and prefer 2 comprehend what's happening in HER existence,good or undesirable. tell her that U will help her by using it the desirable way as U can. And continuously be there for her. i'm a female, and that i prefer that a guy would open up 2 me whilst he feels undesirable,it's going to provide me,or her, extra self belief. desire this facilitates. desirable of excellent fortune!
2016-10-16 09:39:24 · answer #3 · answered by thedford 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she tells you something's wrong and she never says what's wrong, she's probably looking for attention. Just ask her, "Would you like to talk about it?" If she says "No," then switch to another subject, because she wants you to worry and give her the attention, but do not push her into telling you.
2007-02-24 03:45:35 · answer #4 · answered by Chickadee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds kinda blunt
well a relationship best needed criteria is
communication, if she cant communicate with you openly and honestly. I suggest that you might want to rethink your relationship, seems like she doesnt feel happy. Well we wouldnt know since she dosent know how to communicate.
2007-02-24 03:43:38 · answer #5 · answered by DJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her some space. if you two are meant to be then she will come around. also, tell her if she doesn't feel comfortable opening up to you, talk to one ofher friends or her parents. you just want whats best for her, even if your not the one who resolves her problem. goodluck! :-)
2007-02-24 03:44:24 · answer #6 · answered by RikiRo 346 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with a person like that you have to have patience. i know how it feels to not be able to open up to someone, but you have to understand that it's not easy for everyone to express what's wrong. my advice is to be patient she'll learn to open up to you in time.
2007-02-24 03:44:10 · answer #7 · answered by Chiquita dulce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to give her space....maybe she isnt like u and wants to talk about every thing....just give her, her time and she well open up to u....just be a comfort to her!.....best wishes... :)
2007-02-24 03:45:26 · answer #8 · answered by basketball_freak72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do tis sit her down somewhere comfort her then talk to her and then ask her what is wrong while you are comforting her o.k.
2007-02-24 03:43:11 · answer #9 · answered by mahassa84 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋