If you meet Mr /ms special then you stick with them... simple.
till then you should enjoy life to the full and why let anyone tell you you should not.
Surely if yo dont have self respect you let people bully you into accepting a nurd billy no mates saddo nuns lack of sex and non existant love life.
What do you do if you dont meet somone specail till 50 or never?
Remain a sad lonley virgin ? not nookie at all whilst body shrivels up and **** sag AND YOU CANT DO IT ANYMORE?
I mean why miss out on all the uni parties and making out in cinemas
As each life stange has you doing different things.
Condoms and pills sort all the deseases and pregnancies.
As for keeping yourself specail.
Well Mr /MS specail will never want tyou if to needy, virginal, repressed and clueless.
No confidence or clue how to chat up, date or make out and being crap in bed.
Ie if nobody else wants you why would they?
So why not enjoy trainee relationships till then?
2007-02-24 03:34:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
quote faith
Some people are looking for a real connection with that somebody 'special' - and no it is not sad and pathetic to save oneself for that (oh wait for it) perfect someone.
WHY DO YOU AND OTHERS ASSUME YOU WILL EVER MEET SOMONE SPECIAL OR MORE IMPORTANT...
THEY WILL LIKE YOU.
MORE IMPORTANT... UNLESS YOU SLEEP AROUND , DO LOTS OF DATWS, AND SNOG LOTS OF GIRLS OR GUYS WHO DO YOU IMPRESS THEM AND MAKE THEM LIKE YOU?
WHAT HAPPENS IF YOU NEVER MEET SOMONE SPECAIL OR ONLY DO WHEN AGED 84... BIT LATE THEN
2007-02-25 14:44:10 · update #1
It is up to the individual if they desire to sleep around or save themselves for that special person..whatever one chooses to do they will be ridiculed by others who dont understand their choices.
2007-03-02 04:05:26 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Any one can have SEX, a highly over rated past time really.
Making LOVE with one very special person is something else, surely that is worth waiting for.
I happen to think that we are ABOVE animals in a field with such basic needs.
2007-03-04 03:25:50 · answer #2 · answered by SUPER-GLITCH 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respecting yourself, means respecting your body - if you're going to be constantly sleeping around (I'm talking about a new guy/girl every night) then obviously you are not going to know much about the person or their sexual history, (so basically we're talking about the danger of STD's).
Second of all i don't understand people who need to be in a relationship all the time, whether that be emotional or sexual - people need their space. Life does not revolve around SEX (although i understand the act of sex is needed for life to exist).
Thirdly not everyone wants meaningless sex (wham bam thank you man, kind of sex). Some people are looking for a real connection with that somebody 'special' - and no it is not sad and pathetic to save oneself for that (oh wait for it) perfect someone. We all have hopes and aspirations for that one person who will be everything and more than what we want and i hope that special someone will not judge us on the amount of 'experience' we bring!
Lastly, what are all the old people meant to do when they become all old, frigid and incompetent? A Mental and emotional connection is just as (if not more) important as a sexual connection.
2007-02-25 13:58:36 · answer #3 · answered by Faith 5 · 3⤊ 3⤋
wow u have an intristing point of view on this.I know people who do the same.u mean or your talking about one night stands,right?cuz thats what it sounds like to me.what if the right person never shows up?then what?u can,t expect that person to just appear out of the blue,u got to search to.In any case i respect your point of view cuz your not the only one who thinks like this,lots luck and be carefull.
2007-03-04 03:23:33 · answer #4 · answered by Baby Doll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That, i don't in all probability care. I recommend, it is her own physique, ya comprehend? yet i don't have admire in besides for females who sleep with different females's adult males (and fully renowned that those dudes belong to somenone else).
2016-10-16 09:37:27 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your questions are entertaining, but difficult to follow. ie full of typos. Please work on this, because your ideas are interesting and worth discussing.
I do see your point of view here, and agree at least partially. But there is a line between enjoying life (or sex in this case) and sleeping with anyone and everyone because you have some misguided notion that sex = love.
I have read some of your posts, and I agree that love often begins as lust. But it grows into something much more. Many girls are sleeping around not because they genuinely enjoy sex itself, but as a means to get love. Whereas, in general, guys are able to focus more on the strict physical enjoyment aspect of sex. Therein lies the problem. I am generalizing of course, there are always exceptions--and things have changed over the past decades. But that disconnect between the way men and women view sex creates a problem that affects our self-concept (and definition of self respect).
But I completely agree--no one should miss out on making out in the movies....=) Please email me if you're interested in debating the topic.
2007-02-24 12:13:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 4⤋
Yawn, lost interest half way through!
2007-02-25 07:40:19 · answer #7 · answered by Poppy 4 · 3⤊ 4⤋
please make it shorter. Then I will answer seriously.
2007-03-04 03:34:29 · answer #8 · answered by x cutie x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol so true
2007-03-01 21:36:58 · answer #9 · answered by green 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋