If a woman (GF) cheats once, this mean she will always cheat? Would you proceed with marriage plans?
I need many opinions specially girls, please
Thanks!
2007-02-24 03:33:32 · 10 answers · asked by ??? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We speak about sex and if she's satisfied or not and she always said she's satisfied.
Marriage now was her idea as she's almost 10 years older than me and she wanted marriage and kids soon.
2007-02-24 03:52:25 · update #1
About satisfaction, She always said she was satisfied emotionally and sexually. Many times she mentioned that I deserve a better woman and that I'm too good for her but I always told her it's not true and she's all I want.
2007-02-24 03:55:23 · update #2
I have learned from previous experience that once a cheater always a cheater. If I were you I would not proceed with the marriage plans right now. You need lots of time to see if she can regain your trust, is trustworthy, and if you can even forgive her. Don't rush into marriage with someone who just betrayed you in the worst way! Good luck with everything and be strong!
By the way I don't agree with Lishaxlis. I believe cheating is a character flaw! Don't blame yourself! If she wasn't happy in the relationship she should have been honest, not go behind your back and cheat!
2007-02-24 03:41:54 · answer #1 · answered by ChristinaN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not necessarily. If you are talking marriage, she may be scared that her freedom, especially sexual freedom, is about to end. Maybe she takes cheating seriously enough to get through with it before marriage. Marriage means a lifetime commitment to one person, for the most part. It is very scary. Now comes the hard part. Have you had a discussion about whether or not you are meeting each other's sexual needs. Better to discuss it now than later. You really need to know if both of you are satisfied. If not, cheating could come again. People like sexual satisfaction. It has to be something you can talk about. I did some cheating in my time but have been faithful to my current partner for 30 years. Yeah, I'm old but you wanted opinions on cheating. Once a cheater, always a cheater did not hold true for me. I am also a woman by the way. If I had been honest about sex and my emotions with some of the people on whom I cheated, I may have not cheated at all. But I wasnt honest and thought I could find satisfaction elsewhere. I needed a partner who was open to talking and honesty and my cheating ended.
2007-02-24 11:48:29 · answer #2 · answered by juncogirl3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater. You are going to have to see if she learned her lesson, if you catch her in anymore lies you will have to follow your gut and stop the marriage plans. Look her right in the eye and ask her directly what you want to know, if she flinches or looks away she is lying. Life is too short to be unhappy, you have to determine if you think she will do it again and do you want to be married to a person like that? Make sure you sign a prenuptual agreement before you get married. Take care Heather
2007-02-24 11:39:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When u decide to be married to someone u have to know that ur not taking only a wife ur also taking a mother to rase the children, would it seem right that a cheating woman rase ur child?Would she care about her home, her husband and her kids?I really don't think so, ur free to do whatever u want,but be sure that a similar mistake may bring major problems, and never cheating were an ending act,once we do it,we'll never stop.
Wishing u the best
Princesse
2007-02-24 11:54:31 · answer #4 · answered by Princess 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No not always some women if they have any kind of a heart and can totally be regretful for what they have done. Dont be so quick to let her go. We all make mistakes some just bigger than others. I am not saying trust her for a while either though that is something she has to earn back,but dont throw it up in her face everytime you get mad either or neither of you will be able to heal from this. Good Luck !
2007-02-24 11:40:38 · answer #5 · answered by HOT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a woman cheats once, it's very sure that she will cheat again. Maybe not soon but later down the line. It's something that you are missing in your relastionship. Maybe you sex is not good, or maybe it's just something about you that she is not attracted to anymore. Don't marry her... she will always cheat...
2007-02-24 11:38:29 · answer #6 · answered by lishaxlisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater, always a cheater. But it may have just been a default, just, well it depends on the woman.
2007-02-24 11:38:45 · answer #7 · answered by Skye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say if you forgive her then this sends the message that she can get away with it again. If you let her go and she really makes an effort to get you back then it's your call. If she doesn't make a real effort to get you back then you are better off without her.
Just my opinion.
2007-02-24 11:40:41 · answer #8 · answered by Nu_Law 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheaters will always cheat! Trust me on this one my friend!
2007-02-24 11:39:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater always a cheater it dont matter if you are married or just dating
2007-02-24 11:38:55 · answer #10 · answered by jus_teazen08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋