i am from india ; both love and arranged mariages are jostling here . we are modern but many of us are still steeped in medieval viewpoints . i met this girl in chat ; i am 36 she is 22 . she is very spunky very electric but very ill ( she has a brain injury )and troubled in her personal life . we got on to phone chat and quickly very deep feelings came to both of us in most part because she found a friend in me who was always there to give a shoulder to cry on . we met each other on a date i thought to be very successful ...... then her 16 year old cousin eloped with someone that night . so she does not want to continue the relationship anymore since her parents are ultra conservative and it will cause great hurt to them if she chose her man . if her parents are conservative why did she do this to me ? it hurts REAL BAD .. i been with many women but she seemed to be the one and she said so too . the chemistry was amazing . will she return or do i bite the bullet and keep walking ?
2007-02-24 03:19:32 · 11 answers · asked by atma ra m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's sad that this sort of thing is goin on, and what looks like she prefers not to upset her parents so my advice to you is to walk away and if it was ment to be she will find you again
GoodLuck
2007-02-24 03:25:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look dude for someone your age you cant be serious??? Be a man, how did you make it this far in life? Women are always going to do things outside of your control that probally will hurt you and you are old enough to know this, also when making friends online we all know they often dont end up the way you picture them in your head. I understand you are from india, and my western view point is much different, but how attached can you be to someone you've never met? Maybe you should consider a mail order bride? Good luck..
2007-02-24 11:31:49 · answer #2 · answered by DAN D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should move on. She sounds wonderful to be around but with all of her baggage (injury, family, etc.) you are looking at a lifetime of pure misery with her, I'm sure. The right person is out there for you somewhere. I wish you the best.
2007-02-24 11:24:00 · answer #3 · answered by Lois M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you assume her parents will not approve of you? Perhaps and arranged marriage could be brokered for the two of you. I dont know your ways but if you are a good man then maybe that could be arranged.
2007-02-24 11:24:06 · answer #4 · answered by elaeblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let fate take the reigns now. if you two are meant to be together, then eventually time and life will bring her back to you. i wish you luck and i hope that you can live happily ever after with her some day soon.
2007-02-24 11:25:11 · answer #5 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might be hurting just as bad! give her a chance to come back. let her know how you feel.
2007-02-24 11:35:48 · answer #6 · answered by fullofsugaw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep on walking bud.
2007-02-24 11:31:44 · answer #7 · answered by Ttech 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
2007-02-24 11:24:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, talk to her, that's the best you can do, cause maybe she is and maybe not.
â¥Robertaâ¥
2007-02-24 11:23:11 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Roberta. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dude thats how girls tell you that they like you...
2007-02-24 11:27:04 · answer #10 · answered by dez wez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋