help! what can i do??

Question

i got a call from the school my daughter was jumped she is 14, my other daughters are 19 ,17, the other girls are 17,17,15,,it started with beef between the older girls and when they wasnt around my youngest got jumped,, the kids had to stay out of school for a day!well later that day my older daughter got into with the 17 years girl whom lives next door that is one of the kids who tried to jump my youngest, they had words the girl brung a knife on her porch, the police was called, nothing happened, well the girl ended up cutting her self, and they r trying to blame it on my girls saying they drove her over the edge , mind u this is the same girl that started most of this in school, they want to press charges for stalking and haressment, which my kids havent had any contact at all with this people, but however this people are allowed to put video cameras aimed at my house, and talk smack to my kids,im trying to defuse this situation but the parents aint allowing that to happen,

im from michigan! and yes when the police was called they said it was legal to have camaras if i didnt like it close my windows, im looking for another option other then public schools i dont feel like my child is safe there!

i thought kids would be kids and this would be over, but this is now going on 4 weeks, and im tired, i talked to the police i talked to the principle i even called the superintendent, seems like no one can resure me that my kids will be safe in that school yet im told to have my kids not look at them or talk to them but its ok that the other girls talk smack to them

Answer 1

Sorry, you will get know where in the schools. I know I was there. My 17 year old son (at the time) was jumped in Football Practise and they teased him and ripped his clothes off. He is a big person but he did nothing because he thought they were his friends. He was humilited and shocked and said he did not want to be a football player if this is what they are like and he quit.
I marched into the school and could not get anywhere until I mentioned "Sexual Abuse" then they ran around frantic. I finally go them to suspend the boy (his father was a local cop). Dealing with the school district is a dead end. I used to work as a parent helper and I know how the teachers and school employees hide the truth. They dont want anything to rock the boat and they do nothing for these kids. And they will easily single out one kid to blame.

If I was you, I would pull her out. It is not worth it. Public schools are full of abuse, bullying, taunting, and bad judgements. Once this type of thing happens it will never be the same. Pull her out and look for another way to educate your child. The school district will lose money, tax dollars they get for each student but your kid will be out of a out of control situation.

You can educate her online as they have high school courses through colleges, send her to a charter school or private school (many take those that can not afford to pay if the need it there).
You can even home school, even if your work. There are many home schooling groups out there. Some courses are online while others require you to buy the books. Look at all your options.
Search the internet too.
As far as the high school goes, they can be notified of the course of action you are taking. They may want proof to keep them off your back but it is worth it.
My bestfiend recently had problems with her 14 year old. She was depressed and got sick many days and could not attend school. We found school caused her depression. She was the new student in this small community. She felt out of place. After two years of depression and all that brings, her mother finally got the picture and realized that this was the problem. She got her on a waiting list for the local Charter High School. She goes to school one day a week and all other work is done at home. They test her to make sure she is on track. She is happy now and a different teen. Well worth it.
No one ever has to let their teen go to a school were they are unhappy or getting abused. Pull her out and make a plan but remember to include her in the choice.

Answer 2

Well: you'd can talk with the "School Principal about that privately or plan an Parent & Teacher meetting in local City
Hall" refer http://www.pta.org
we'd hopes this would help you
God Bless !

Answer 3

pay back is a b**** have your daughters jump each one of them one by one and beat the living crap out of them so those girls will think twice about messin with your family....your daughters are minors they wont do any jail time.....have them take it to the next level above the other girls....