If I am too nice, they tend to think I am after them and try to take advantage. If I a not nice, they think I am stuffy. No matter what I do, I can't win and they think I am leading them on. Where do I draw the line and how do I comminicate with a man? Advice and tips please.....
2007-02-24 02:33:01 · 10 answers · asked by some chic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As always, just be yourself! If they are already friends, then they should already know how you are and will understand your kind heart. If they are not, then they should be allowed time to know and learn more about you so they will not get mixed feelings or being mislead. Just don't be blatantly flirtatious where it sends out wrong signals to them. There's nothing wrong with being kind and caring. Men can sometimes wish for one thing or only decipher what they wish they could interpret from you. The wiser and more mature guy will interpret it properly without turning his nose up at for being too 'stuffy' with him. But just be yourself =)
2007-02-24 02:41:52 · answer #1 · answered by indyhype 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U communicate with men the same way that u do with women. Be friendly and be yourself. The guys being attracted to u doesn't necessarily have to do with how u treat them. They probably liked u before hand and just got the opportunity to show it after u started talking to them. Just let them know that u aren't interested.
2007-02-24 10:39:36 · answer #2 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not too much eye contact, don't make with the physical jestures, eg. hand on shoulder, etc...... and you can be nice w/out the flirting, and don't make yourself seem like a push over at the same time, I.E. being taken advantage of, if you do want it to go somewhere
2007-02-24 10:45:05 · answer #3 · answered by mlock123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't 'have' to be anything. Just be yourself. No matter what you do others will judge you. You just need to ignore them. Your free to draw the line where you want it.
2007-02-24 10:39:23 · answer #4 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat them the same way you would want to be treated. Talk to them like you would a family member. And if you want a relationship to develop, then it is your step to act more agressive.
2007-02-24 10:37:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
plenty other women (including me) needs an answer to that too
2007-02-24 10:38:07 · answer #6 · answered by nabz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But up front and honest
2007-02-24 10:36:50 · answer #7 · answered by Mr Big 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they take advantage of you slap them, they will learn!!!
2007-02-24 10:37:41 · answer #8 · answered by hottie 123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be as courteous are they are to you. dont try to overdue things.
2007-02-24 10:37:37 · answer #9 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself -
2007-02-24 10:36:41 · answer #10 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋