my boyfriend said im ready but i dont know!! im scare so im not ready right? :(
2007-02-24 02:32:58 · 8 answers · asked by Syn . 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if you have even the smallest doubt in your mind, don't do it! Especially without marriage, the guy will most likely leave you in the end of it all, especially if you get pregnant. Don't let him tell you what your feelings are when you don't even know yourself, because this sounds a bit to me like he's trying to intimidate you into something you're just not ready for. Another deciding factor would be what kind of standards you have for yourself and what the standards are for religion. Don't do anything stupid! When you're ready, go for it, but for now, just take it slow. <3
2007-02-24 02:48:20 · answer #1 · answered by The Prep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are scared, then you are not ready. Do not let him tell you what you think or feel. Sex requires mental and emotional maturity, the ability to understand the consequences and be able to say "we've responsibly found a way to minimize the risk of unwanted pregnancy and STDs".
Sex should be something you WANT to do without being coerced or convinced. Tell that boy "No, I don't want to have sex with you now. If and/or when I change my mind, I will let you know. Don't talk to me about it again, please." and be firm about it. Don't let him wear you down--if he continues to press the subject after you say no, dump him, as he will have shown exactly what it is he is really interested in.
2007-02-24 10:48:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything that you're not ready for. And never let any one pressure you into do anything that you are not ready for or not to sure about. If he can't wait then that's his loss and he'a a LOSER. Don't do anything that you'll regret in the long run. Much luck to ya!
2007-02-24 10:51:19 · answer #3 · answered by Jenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know how old u are.... but just know.... boys will use u.... leave you..... making u feel used.... dont trust him..... to heck with what he wants... what do u want? if ur under 18 i say dont do it.... u one day will regret it... heck even if ur over 18... u gotta love this person.. heart and soul..... dont have sex for sex... have sex for love.... boys will tell u they love you so they will get some.. dont believe them... if u can handle him leaving u one day.... ok... but if u will be hurt... dont do it...
2007-02-24 10:50:15 · answer #4 · answered by gina B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not sure then don't do it. He should want you to be ready and not force the subject.
2007-02-24 10:48:42 · answer #5 · answered by masterzuaba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do anything with him until your ready but my advice wait for marriage....
2007-02-24 10:41:19 · answer #6 · answered by joann c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you gotta ask urslf. r u scare??? if ur answer is no and this is somethin that u wanna do with him, then proceed. as simple aa that dear.
2007-02-24 10:47:36 · answer #7 · answered by aim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know what you're missing!
2007-02-24 10:43:10 · answer #8 · answered by melissa c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋