Ive been seeing think girl for the last few month shes about 8 years older then me and its going great but I worried that the ago different is going to brake us up or that the ago different is going to stuff thinks up plz help
2007-02-24 02:29:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The other think is that we are like half way across the country from each other. She lives in Sydney and I live in Barossa Valley do you think it will work
2007-02-24 16:59:28 · update #1
The only reason I ask is that the last few day havent been good because both of us have been questioning each other about the ago different. Like she said to me if I find a girl the same ago as me I should go for it but like I said to her was shes the only one that understand me and makes me happy. I havent found someone my own ago that understand me.
2007-02-24 17:08:53 · update #2
Two questions.
1) Is there no one closer to your age yo can see?
2) Is this a friendship or something more intimate?
2007-02-24 02:35:09 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are both of legal age (which, apparently you are) and it doesn't bother the two of you, go for it. People will always have opinions about the relationship, but the only two that matter are yours and hers. You may be at different points in your lives, or the two points may not be as far away as others think. No one can judge you. As long as it is a healthy, happy relationship, don't let criticism of thers get to you.
2007-02-24 11:08:39 · answer #2 · answered by AnastasiaBeaverhousen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no problem. I just do not like the 40 year old man 18 year old girl thing. When I was 21, I was with a woman for a while that was 35. It was fun.
2007-02-24 10:34:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you both are comfortable with each other, there is nothing wrong at all! It's all in how your mind/heart feels from what other people may perceive. Don't let how other people think determine your comfort level. If you are still having trouble dealing with it, then you should be just friends rather than dating.
2007-02-24 10:37:03 · answer #4 · answered by indyhype 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not good to be that far apart. You both have different things on your mind, like having a family or going to college. There are just too many conflicts of interest.
2007-02-24 10:33:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's fine. Get over the age-gap in your mind, & you're set :)
It's not impossible. I know a lot of couples who're married since decades, who have an age gap larger than that one.
All the best!
2007-03-03 02:21:49 · answer #6 · answered by justanotherbloke 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Older females are the way to go dude. They wont call and whine and wont care where you take them. They are better in bed and just want you for sex. Sign me up.
2007-02-24 10:35:35 · answer #7 · answered by csiders30 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you guys love each other i dont see what's the problem. talk to her see if she feels the same way, try to work things out.
2007-02-24 10:33:36 · answer #8 · answered by Chiquita dulce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alright yes it is alright i mean it's not against the law and once you're an adult u can make ur own choices so i think it's alright.
2007-02-24 10:35:05 · answer #9 · answered by Destinee S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. if it ain't broke don't fix it. if both of you are comfortable with it then don't worry about it, and forget about everything and everyone else and focus on just you and her.
2007-02-24 10:37:20 · answer #10 · answered by mlock123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋