My girlfriend and I used to be together for 7 years. I love her so much. I asked her to marry me for only 3+ times. All of them no. I am 30, and she is 28. and now, she broke up with me since she wasn't ready for marriage. How do I get her back? I am really depressed without her. She's the most greatest person in my life.
2007-02-24 02:08:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She doesn't want you dude. Sorry but its the truth. Grow a spine and fill up your time with things you like to do. Once she sees you're busy and moving on fine without her, she'll either see what she's missing or .. not. Either way, you've built a decent life for yourself.
2007-02-24 02:11:09 · answer #1 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that you pushed it little to far it makes a person feel uncomfortable when they are asked to many times so what you could do is sit her down and tell her that you are willing to give more time into the relationship there will always be time to get married and ask her if she will ever have interest in marring you if she does than you just need to take it slow for while and just be the best person you be and if you are doing that than that is all you have to give so now its her turn to give it all shes got but if shes just not into getting married ask yourself do you really need to marry her or could the relationship work without marriage.
2007-02-24 10:19:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't push her into marriage until you both ready. Marriage is something natural and wanted by both. Try talking to her, tell her that you are sorry and didn't mean to rush her into something that you are both not ready for. But don't give on the relationship. Ask her out for dinner, a walk around the park and talk.
2007-02-24 10:18:31 · answer #3 · answered by Sweetbpecan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start from scratch and be friends all over again. she might not be ready for marriage, but that takes time to decide. you cant press that on someone. if you did get back with her, i would not bring up marriage to her or you will lose her again. if she is interested in marriage, believe me she will let you know in her own way.
2007-02-24 10:14:46 · answer #4 · answered by mlock123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a gentleman and let her go.. 3 times is a strike and if she isnt ready for marriage and she says so, the more u pressure her, the more she'll run away frm u.. give her time to cool off and respect her for watever her next decision is, whether it's to be wit u or not.. plz respect her..
2007-02-24 10:12:41 · answer #5 · answered by fizadora 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to her, tell her what is in your heart, ask her to tell u what if anything can be done to save the relationship. maybe she felt trapped and just isn't ready for marriage yet. anything can be worked out in a relationship unless she has found someone else she loves.
2007-02-24 10:12:33 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I'm a girl, and I can tell you. You don't need to get her anything, or even bribe her way back. What you need to do is tell her you want her back. If you tell her the details in you put in your question. VVovv her! Tell her how important she is to you. If she says yes, hold back the proposing for at least 4 years.
2007-02-24 10:19:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
~Sad to say you may never get her back...but if you show her you are there for her as a friend...maybe she will decide she wants you too...but you cant keep holding on to her as a relationship typ if she let you go....she needs to expierance life without you before she can decide if she wants you there or not...sooooo...give her some space and just be there for her and Time will tell....s....
2007-02-24 10:17:42 · answer #8 · answered by dreamzzz102 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the issue why she decided to break up with you. i'm sure it sin't just because you asked her for marriage and she wasn't ready.
She needs space, and i guess you need it too.
2007-02-24 10:13:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on....don't want to be harsh but there is a time and season for everyting and it is time for you to get out there and see what great things lie ahead for you....cry, get angry, get drunk....then move on and see the possibilities.
All the best.
2007-02-24 10:12:06 · answer #10 · answered by Laura S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋