i have this problem where i always wnt more than i can acheive once i acheive it i want more?

Question

i no it sounds confusing heres an example. i fancy a girl and work hard to try and make her like me then she likes me i want a girl even further out of my legue. this is an ongoing cycle preventing me from getting close with girls. but i also have this problem in other areas of my life for example i get a good mark in my exam and i want better.

does any one know of this problem how to solve it, or any information about it

thanks

Answer 1

I'm the same way. Once I get what I worked so hard to get. I don't want it anymore. I pull out all the stops to break down barriers then when I cut and run I have broken someones heart. I don't do it on purpose. I truly want it till I get it.