am 18, and i have a girl in class that i like very much, she is seriously beatiuful, i notice in class that she gives me loads of eyes contact but the problem is that whenever i go talk to her she tries to end the conversation polietly after 1 or 2 minutes. (she gets out her mobile phone and pretends she talks to someone (i think) then she tells me she has to leave). i dont get to understand her at all. please help me y is this.
2007-02-24 01:48:59 · 9 answers · asked by Joan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girls are just wierd creatures. Be aggressive. She starts talking on the phone: "can you give me some time?" Dont let her walk away w/o giving you an answer to a SPECIFIC question. If you want to take her out, tell her the day, time and place. Ask for her opinion on it and go from there. If she still blows you off...she's Paris Hilton and not worth your time. Less high maintenence girls are more fun and interesting. This one is more impressed w/herself then you it seems.
2007-02-24 01:56:05 · answer #1 · answered by csiders30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
[1] i can help you with that stuck question mark key.
[2] if you end up making out with her, please keep us informed.
Sorry that second one was a rude guy thing. Honestly, have you ever thought that here at the end of high school or first year in college she is considering feelings for other girls she might have never explored before? It might take her some time. Plus there you are in public so if she starts licking her lips when she's talking to you - everyone around can see it. Maybe she doesn't want everyone to know she has feelings for another girl.
In your 1 or 2 minute window, ask her to do something innocent, still in public, but away from all these people, with you. Coffee? Study in the library? Grab a bite? Shopping? Or get her number and tell her you want to text her a question and ask her that way.
In other words, how would you like *her* to approach *you*? Not too serious, not too heavy, not too in front of everyone, but with feeling anyway. RIght? Then do that to her.
2007-02-24 10:00:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, speaking from a beautiful female point of view I would say she is not int interested in you and maybe all the "eye contact" is for someone else that just happens to be in your direction of the class room. If she was interested at all in you she wouldn't blow you off, even if she does it politely it still blowing you off. I mean if your 18 then that means she has to be some what 17 and up right ? so a guy coming up to her is nothing new, there is no nead to play games, you both are obiosly not in 5th grade, so she knows very well what she is doing and why she is doing it. I think you need to forget about that and look for someone Else affection honey.
2007-02-24 09:56:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, usually eye contact means someone is interested. i'd assume that also. but trying to end the conversation is really weird. maybe she's shy, or maybe the eye contact was for another reason. there's one thing i know as a girl, and that's that girls NEVER make sense.
so, here's the only advice i think i could give. during one of those short conversations, ask her for her number or ask her if she wants to hang out or something (personally i think you should go with the latter) and see how she reacts. if she says no, then she was looking at you for some other reason, but if she says yes she was probably just shy.
i know putting yourself out there can be nerve-racking and humiliating if you don't get a positive response, but i don't really see any other way of figuring it out for sure. good luck!
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and in response to the above, about being gay, doesn't matter. if someone feels that way, they can't help it. so that girl giving you eye contact, no matter what sex you are, was no mistake i think. i just think she's shy.
2007-02-24 09:56:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, well i'm 30 years old, and i think i can give you advice on this... First of all you need to know that for a WOMAN... IT NEEDS TO BE A CHALLENGE... They dont like it when it's too easy...
So my advice is keep it for now with the eyes contact, and after a while, you need to play the game that those look dont do anything to you... I'm not saying try to find some kind of face for her to understand, but ignore her just a little... You're not trying to say to show her like you dont care... You just smile at her and try to talk to her less... dont try to make those conversation... and ABOVE ALL... BE PATIENT... They Love gentleman more than gangster or badass... Try to find what she's really cares about... What she likes... the more you'll know... easier for you it's gonna be... and also a GREAT CHALLENGE... the REAL SECRET WITH WOMEN... DONT TRY TO UNDERSTAND THEM... IF YOU REALLY WANT THIS WOMAN... you'll take as she is...
Well good luck my friend! and Let me know!!!
2007-02-24 10:00:49 · answer #5 · answered by damous1975 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is either act cool or does not like you at all...looking at someone doesn't mean s/he is interested...a very wrong concept here.
2007-02-24 09:52:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find another girlfriend.
2007-02-24 10:18:51 · answer #7 · answered by abotraka777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a Lesbian and expecting her to want you?
2007-02-24 09:52:38 · answer #8 · answered by april showers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might be playing hard to get
2007-02-24 09:57:22 · answer #9 · answered by Caitlin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋