this wekend....is trying her shot on broadway...my opinion, she is great, head shots this weekend, I have the ability to follow her...should I?? I am stressed beyond belief....need to let go right?.......thanks....
2007-02-24 01:47:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
great answers allll............tough to let go...I have done nothing but cry for days!!!
2007-02-24 01:58:40 · update #1
not a mom...sounds like more of a mom!!!!
2007-02-24 02:18:56 · update #2
Ya know, I can tell you're a really good mom because of your concern. I'm afraid you're right, though. You need to let go. It's tough, but I'm sure you raised your daughter with some good common sense. Try to relax a little and let her find her own way to shine. And if she needs your help, I'm sure she'll let you know.
2007-02-24 01:53:50 · answer #1 · answered by Tara 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she was 17, I'd say go find her. But she is 21, and you say she's got a shot, so all you can do is (if she has a cell phone) do the mom thing, call her, and say good luck and to keep you up to date on what's going on. You have to trust that you raised her right and she'll be fine. I totally understand, though. I mean, I only have a 19 month old son, but I can just imagine. I got worried just reading your headline! So good luck, take a deep breath, and relax!
2007-02-24 01:58:05 · answer #2 · answered by ale 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 09:59:13 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
<--- not a mom,
if she is intilegent and "street smart" and if she knows NOT TO TRUST ANYBODY, espically in NYC, she should be fine, this is assuming she has a plan set out already, where she is going, staying and what not.
just make sure she does not do much wondering around. and when she does go around, make sure it is during the day, she must be in well before dark. she must stay where other people are at. and posibably with someone. its hard for 2 people to get raped, one person is eaiser. im sure she will be around other people she should get a friend. i would actually ask her to get a friend. itl make you feel better with that thought in her mind.
if you go, it should be more to support her than to protect her.
but keep this in mind. its hard for 2 people to get raped, one person is eaiser.
above all else, make sure she will not be alone.
mike
by the way, iv barely ever left the small college town of kalamazoo.
2007-02-24 01:55:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You didn't mention whether she wants you with her or not. If she does I would BE there. If not, then go keep yourself busy. I have a 20 year old daughter leaving the state tomorrow and I am a nervous wreck. I'm planning on getting together with some friends to keep busy. GOOD LUCK
2007-02-24 02:06:01 · answer #5 · answered by MeanKitty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go if your supporting her, stay home if your spying on her. Trust that she is a big girl and can take care of herself. But she might need moral support. Ask her when she calls, Let her know your willing to come if she would like you too.. Respect her answer.
2007-02-24 01:51:09 · answer #6 · answered by tammer 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
She is an adult. As long as she has a good head on her shoulders, I would not worry. I used to take the train down to the city as a teenager..it's perfectly safe.
2007-02-24 01:50:24 · answer #7 · answered by KathyS 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you raised her right she'll be fine, let her go. Besides us kids always call our Mom when we need her.
2007-02-24 03:54:42 · answer #8 · answered by skylark455st2 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
do not follow her, she is an adult. Have her call you when she gets in but otherwise you have to relax and let her go on her own.
2007-02-24 01:51:21 · answer #9 · answered by Melissa J 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. Don't let go! Definately go with her!! I would. Why sit at home stressing. That's your baby. And even if she doesn't admit it, I'm sure your support would be appreciated.
2007-02-24 01:51:20 · answer #10 · answered by Chula 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋