have you made up a great reason for it , excuse for it , story about it, justification for it? blame men about it?
and is all that your left with after all that good enough?
2007-02-24 01:15:31 · 8 answers · asked by lowroad 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've definitely gotten used to it, and my life is better than ever now that I've stopped developing unrequited crushes on unavailable guys.
2007-02-24 13:52:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You forgot one or two reasons there, dear one. I'm not "used to" it because I chose it. I don't "blame men" because they have tried. I take complete and total resposibility for my solitary life.
I could have settle down already but can't find any reason to do it. I find wanting a man for companionship or for sex 20% of the time isn't a good enough "reason" to take on on 100% of the time.
So even a "dating relationship" with one steady guy is just too much for me. Having said that, I sometimes like to have 3, just in case on is out of town or sick and there's a good play to see and my better girlfriends are busy. Plus, the hens aren't my choice for a sexual partner. AND nothing beats a man when it comes to comfort or real companionship.
So, I guess I take your question to mean that we can't decide we don't want a man for any legitimate reason - at least not in your eyes. I think I gave my 25 years and did it with honor and dedication.
I'm not saying it CAN'T ever happen again but I don't look for it nor do I encourage it.
If that's a "story" or "justification" or an "excuse" in your book than your book is just poorly written and doesn't include a whole group of women who don't have to have men in their lives in a total and complete way.
I adore spinich salad, but not every night and I don't feel I need a reason for loving it but not wanting to eat it constantly.
2007-02-25 00:20:12 · answer #2 · answered by Ande 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not having a partner is not a reason to say you're not good enough. Self -esteem and happiness come from within, not from someone else.
I'm happily single, so far haven't found that genuinely authentic man who I would really want to spend the rest of my life with.
If I find him, fine , if not fine too. I enjoy my life , I have wonderful friends who have wonderful children who are my ' family'. I love the work I do , I love my independence and my interdependence and am quuite happy with my lot.
2007-02-24 09:23:52 · answer #3 · answered by Lizzy-tish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,
you see one day i was walking down the street to a near by restarunt for some spaggetti then this guy came up to me and was all "hey babe" he smelt foul and like a ciggerete! i was like "eww get lost!" but he didnt get the picture and followed me around.he kept calling me a "sexy beast" and it creeped me out big time then he decided he had to take me home but i was like "i dont think my mommy would aprove of that!" shes a cop you know! from that day forward i decided i liked being single, not to mention dating could possibly ruin my long term goals of getting my head ran over by a train in africa lol.
i bet your getting realy sick of my made up stories huh? but oh arent i creative
2007-02-24 09:34:46 · answer #4 · answered by Crystal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Single or involved no matter ... happiness does count!
2007-02-24 09:22:17 · answer #5 · answered by Sara007 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes yes No No No No No Yes
2007-02-24 21:11:18 · answer #6 · answered by Basket-santa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when I was single I loved it....but I am not single anymore.....love not being single too.....life is what you make it....I choose to be happy!
2007-02-24 09:22:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
no
2007-02-24 09:18:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋