ok, so i have this friend and i kinda like him. problam is i don't really know if he likes me back. everytime i think he does he dose things that make me thing he dosen't. for example some days hes always around me and i can't even turn a corner without seeing him, but other days it seems like he ignores me at all costs. he called me on the phone and we talked till like 1 in the morning but he kept talking about his other friend that was a girl. so can anyone tell me what this means?!?!!?! i'm not sure what to do
2007-02-24 01:11:51 · 12 answers · asked by inufan2892 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This isn't as bad as you think.He must have some type of attraction to you.,to talk for hours on the phone,shows that.Boys(men) can't say right away if there is really something they would like to see happen,especially if he has been hurt before.
Him talking about other girls could be his way of seeing what type of reaction you might have or again it could be a bad relationship,he needs a shoulder to lean on.
Don't give up.He might be very thankful that he could talk to someone.
The root to all good friends(relationships)should be the fact that you can talk so openly with each other.
Don't give up,someday,it might turn out your way..
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!
2007-02-24 01:30:40 · answer #1 · answered by BaDonkaDonk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep having "boy problems", that means that you're probably not ready to be involved with them yet. Develop your own life first. He's talking about a girl who impresses him. You need to start doing things that will impress people and make you proud of yourself. What's going on in your life? Do you have any hobbies, are you in a team sport, are you on the honor roll? Is there any thing about you that makes you different and better? If not, he'll always be talking to you about other people.
2007-02-24 01:15:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
...this boy likes being around you, but maybe he is not thinking of you as you think of him. as you said he talks to you on the phone about the other girl, so does he talk stuff like he likes her or thinks she's hot? if he does then probably he needs advice from a female like you. but like always there could be much more about him. maybe other days like you said he ignores you, maybe he feels uneasy or something happened back home or family troubles, so don't force him to do anything. all you should do is get him to know you more and you should get to know more of him, and when you do in time he might ask you out...and that could be because he likes your personality if you really show it...= )
2007-02-24 01:20:29 · answer #3 · answered by Liusy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say be nice to him, but don't go out of your way to run into him or hang out with him. If he calls and starts talking about another girl, tell him you have to get off. This way you'll find out if he really likes you. Guys like independent girls they have to work a little bit hard for, but certainly not too hard.
2007-02-24 01:16:19 · answer #4 · answered by Ricky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what he discusses with you about his old friend(girl you said) if he tells you that the other girl was better than you then that means he dosnt love you the way he does the other lady.
2007-02-24 01:20:33 · answer #5 · answered by actualdonreal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
havent you thought that maybe he is taking you as his best friend as he likes talking to you and thats isnt bad if you like him and you are that close to him as you say then it will be easy to make him forget about that other girl and make him like u but just make him feel that ur his real friend and that u will always be there for him
2007-02-24 01:17:33 · answer #6 · answered by shenequa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he like you. Maybe he just does not know how to express his feeling or shy. Maybe he just afraid being turned down by you since he might wonder your feeling of him. Maybe the other girl is refer to you cause if he really like other girl and treat you as frenz, he will tell you who she is or he is in love...
2007-02-24 01:17:32 · answer #7 · answered by eyzf2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's best just to come out and ask him "Do you want to go steady" or "are you looking for a Girlfriend?",or ask him if he thinks if you have a fine behind? If you don't ask Honey you'll never know.
2007-02-24 01:17:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He like the other girl but he needs a girl to talk to but he doesn't want you to think he likes you or is stalking you.
2007-02-24 01:16:46 · answer #9 · answered by notoriousteen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you noticed, all of your relationship problems have one thing in common.
2007-02-24 01:15:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋