I've been dating my fiance for almost 2 years and he's WITHOUT A DOUBT the best boyfriend I've ever had. He's so considerate of my feelings and I know that he'd do anything for me. But it's almost like he's too nice sometimes and we NEVER fight about anything. I don't know why, but sometimes I like to pick small fights with him and blow them out of proportion just to create some drama in our relationship. Is this just me being a girl or is there something in my relationship that's lacking?
2007-02-24 01:03:44 · 12 answers · asked by Kelly M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are obviously a drama queen. The fact that you admit you do it is the first step in eliminating this kind of behavior. It is destructive to any relationship.
2007-02-24 01:12:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is actually quite common. Sometimes people do it because they are worried the other person is going to find fault in them. So they start problems. It can escalate and sometimes it's caused by a person trying to create problems so that the person will leave before the other person gets too attached or hurt. It is not uncommon for someone who feels eventually this person is going to leave them for some reason or another and so they try to push them into it.
Sometimes people do it because they feel they don't deserve to be with this person. Especially if they have had boyfriends in the past who were emotionally abusive or put them down.
The fact that you realize you are doing it should help you work through this. After all admitting it's a problem puts you ahead of the problem already. When you realize your doing it try and stop yourself and ask yourself how important is this issue?
2007-02-24 01:09:45 · answer #2 · answered by Proud to be APBT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a insecurity about the relationship and by causing drama in it you are testing it.THIS IS NOT PROPER OR ADVISED. From what I can figure your past relationships were not very solid and some of them may have been ended unexpectedly by the other person.You need to either believe in yourself and the relationship or you need to seek professional psychiatric help to deal with your insecurity issues.Or you will never be able to enjoy what you have and your life.
2007-02-24 01:16:30 · answer #3 · answered by hjbergel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you causing Drama?? You say he is the best boyfriend you ever had ..Want to loose him?? Keep it up and you may just do that .I know people that would give anything for a relationship like yours !! But I have a guy like yours and he is MY everything!! If you can say your are truly happy in your heart of hearts then don't rock the boat .Go with the flow ...Good luck .
2007-02-24 01:11:20 · answer #4 · answered by southernn_sky_2020 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 21:59:15 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just you being a girl(kidding). If your man is laid back and doesn't like drama he might bounce on you, thats what i did cause she was always started fights for no reason. I think you kinda have a thing for bad boys but are with a good guy.
2007-02-24 01:11:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think dat it's just u being a girl u just want a little drama trust me im da same way it doesn't mean ur a drama queen u just want a little spark in da relationship.i would advise you to wait a little while one day dat fight will come lol
2007-02-24 01:09:10 · answer #7 · answered by tay tay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha we all like to have a little fun, and without them fights, what will happen if a biggg fight comes, noones really gonna know what to do :D. haha. Just dont go too overboard lady! =)
2007-02-24 01:07:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship is lacking what you see on soap operas. Appreciate what you have. Appreciate the fact that you won't cry every night and develop wrinkles from worry and grey hair from wondering where he is. Be happy that you're blessed instead of looking for misery. Many girls would die for what you have.
2007-02-24 01:07:16 · answer #9 · answered by Aiden 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
You're insane
2007-02-24 01:06:44 · answer #10 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋