At my new job there are a lot of females, that work there. I've notice they keep poking me with their fingers, should i treat this as a threat. Or keep giving me hugs, i know giving hugs is a sign of goodwill. But why do you guys do this Ex: poking me? Does this mean you like me or like being around me?? What about if you keep calling my name, just to mess around with me??
(Yes, I've had girlfriends before, so i am not totally illiterate when it comes to females. It's just not a question i will walk up to someone and asked them. (this is for you dumb *** out there who thinks i am asking a silly question, i am talking to you bomb shut guys, not females, you know who you are)
2007-02-24 01:01:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is another guy who works at my job but he doesn't get all the attention like me. Not all the females at my entire job does this, but a a lot do. I've worked other jobs before with females but never got THAT much attention. It feels weird.
2007-02-24 01:15:08 · update #1
taking a guess here - you're a decent, huggable kind of guy who they trust enough to poke and hug, and not take advantage of them.
2007-02-24 01:13:08 · answer #1 · answered by Jade Ice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what the deal might be. If it were just the women giving u attention....I wood assume that they were all interested for a lil something more then what u´ve been handing them.
I think that maybe a rumor was spread about u. Not a bad one, otherwise the women wouldn´t be hugging you.
That´s the only thing i cood come up with that justifies the poking, the hugging, and male/female attention.
2007-02-24 02:02:10 · answer #2 · answered by Jay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deal with this - I had a guy who use to friendly poke me in the side at work. It grow to the point that it got out of control. Because people at work saw that he was friendly poking me in the side and not stopping it, It was believed I encouraged it.
It is very easy to have a sexual harassment suit filed against you because you are a guy. Be platonic and friendly during work. If the girl likes you meet her after work. Hugs, poking and touching are not professional. --- Yes I do think the girl likes you.
2007-02-24 01:28:21 · answer #3 · answered by jewelsthomas 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They Key here is The use of Plural.. Females.. Buddy your in a great spot. They each want your attention, and more. If you play your cards right you might be able to land a double duo girlfriend setup. If 2 of the girls are friends and you like them both, explain your torn between them. Girls are more likely to share a guy if they are friends. If the girls are not close friends then you have to settle one girl, and make a night out of it. be with her for awhile and if things don't work out. try another girl.
2007-02-24 01:10:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well being a girl I can answer this as truthfully as possible sometimes girls do it because they like messing with your head other times they want something from you such as s** ect. or they actually might like you so you should ask them and if you like some of the girls who do it talk to them flirt with them good luck :]]]
2007-02-24 01:08:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's a threat; are you he first male that has worked there in a while? it could be a reaction kind of like, "wow, a man!"
2007-02-24 01:11:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your maybe the only desent looking guy around there, or they just want you. Or are just playng around for time to go by
2007-02-24 01:06:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means there bored and just playing with you.You know teasing!P.S I have found it to be a god policy to NOT date anyone I work with.
2007-02-24 01:07:07 · answer #8 · answered by april showers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is interested in you and are waiting 4 ur answer...
2007-02-24 01:05:04 · answer #9 · answered by eyzf2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is flirting and i think thay like you if you dont like it tell them
2007-02-24 01:05:51 · answer #10 · answered by harleyhoney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋