i like this girl and she likes me too... I want to get attached to her but she told me she's not ready for it.. so do i wait for her? wait if after the long wait, i ended up with nothing??? please help..
2007-02-24 00:55:56 · 9 answers · asked by Red Beret 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if u really do like her.. i think u should wait..coz dun forget..she likes u..
all she needs now is time.. giv her some time to accept a new relationship..
n while u're waiting.. u should do somethin to make her feel secured n loved..
n lastly.. i bet it will ends up worth the waiting..
even if u end up wit ntg..at least u tried.. there's no such thing as free lunch.. if u wan her.. 'pay' some time on her..
dats my advise..good luck
2007-02-24 01:09:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why bother waiting? Show her who is boss, and go date other girls. In fact, when she wants to meet you, show up with your other girlfriends. That will show her that you are not into games.
Forget the wait. Its better to wait for the moon to turn blue. So you wait...now tell me how long is long and how short is short? Different people will have different perspective on time. One year can be long to you, but short to her. Or 3 days can be short for you, but a long wait for her.
So don't bother, and move on. Just be friends for now. And continue dating other girls.
2007-02-24 10:42:07 · answer #2 · answered by J L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand where you're coming from. I've played the "wait-game" before. But in my situation- I knew the guy Loved me, it just wasn't the right time to officially be together. And I respect him, for being honest with me. If you really have strong feelings for this girl, and you know she likes you too- give it a chance!!! Comfort her, and talk to her about whats on your mind. She'll begin to open up to you, and will grow to probably look at you in a different aspect. Follow your heart:
Good Luck
2007-02-24 09:03:11 · answer #3 · answered by CUTIE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both like each other nothing to afraid. So wait for the right time that she is ready..To talk to her carefully about you and your realationship with her...
2007-02-24 09:03:08 · answer #4 · answered by edsky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait only for some time ... only if she would have an apparant convincing reason(s)!
Dont waste your time, if you picked out that there is no interest at all!
2007-02-24 09:01:53 · answer #5 · answered by Sara007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for another month or 2, then pop the question again, by then she should have sort out her thought already.
2007-02-24 09:31:00 · answer #6 · answered by firefly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for a little while but keep your options open, you might like this girl, but hang out with other girls, that way you're not just waisting your time.
but i'm not saying like hook up with girls every weekend, i'm just saying keep a open mind.
2007-02-24 09:00:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
or what if while your waiting, a better one goes by and you don't even see her.
2007-02-24 09:01:26 · answer #8 · answered by tripppah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope
2007-02-24 13:01:12 · answer #9 · answered by Because I'm Kool 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋