Last night my fiance called me from work - I was sleeping because I had to get up early to go to work. I was already annoyed becuz I just woke up, and during our conversation he just kept talking to this girl he works with. He mentioned something about her going to the restroom and then asked her what she was doing. All I heard was giggling on her end - and it really annoyed me. Why did he call me and wake me up if he was just going to put me on hold to talk to her? I got really mad at him, yelled, and hung up on him - was I in the wrong?
2007-02-24 00:44:45 · 25 answers · asked by Kelly M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have every right to be annoyed to the point of a little anger, but not screaming furious.
2007-02-24 00:47:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy is out of his mind!!! he calls you in the middle of the night while hes with a girl he works with. if the whole waking you up thing wasn't rude enough, he then decides to pay more attention to the girl hes with then to you who is half asleep on the other end of the line. don't completely forget this guy, but if hes willing to do that what else has he done? never be taken as a fool. good luck!
2007-02-24 00:50:53 · answer #2 · answered by jazzy xo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emotions or not right or wrong, they just are. Yelling solves nothing, and you owe him an apology, for yelling, not for being angry. No one makes us angry, we choose to be angry, happy, etc. Sounds like he called because he was having a good time at work and was thinking of you. This isn't the answer you want though...you want to be told you were right and justified. SORRY
2007-02-24 00:51:45 · answer #3 · answered by Mike M. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your emotions are your own, you have every right to them.
I would not be happy if someone had done this to me, but since he is the one that was foolish, do not let your emotion of being mad ruin your own mood for long.
Be happy that you have more sense than to call someone when they have to get up early for work.
2007-02-24 00:49:23 · answer #4 · answered by doublewidemama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all, this has happened to me too, with my girlfriend. She was out one night, called me for a lift home(waking me up), and while I was on the line, started flirting with a guy who happened to be queueing for the cloakroom beside her. I gave her a lift, but she knew I was annoyed with her, and didn't talk to her for a few days.
You're right to be angry, and it will teach him to think about what he's doing when he rings you at night
2007-02-24 00:51:29 · answer #5 · answered by anto687 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he was being stupid. If he's calling you he should be talking to you, not to the girl next to him. Just make sure you explain why you were mad at him or you're both in the wrong.
2007-02-24 00:49:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You so did the right thing! Maybe you should just leave him--but you've guys made it so far in your relationship! If you can't trust him, then I'd def. leave him, because trust is key to a relationship! Ofcourse, all girls NEED sleep. If not we get crabby and it just won't be a good day. Girl, you have the right to leave him!
2007-02-24 00:54:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have a right to be mad at him, if you are mad. It sounds cruel and rude. Remember, every woman has the right to be mad if something makes her angry , or gets under her skin. Don't ever let anyone tell you that you don't have that right. I, personally, would be so pissed.
2007-02-24 00:49:16 · answer #8 · answered by Rachael T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you were not wrong. If he asks tell him what annoyed you and then let it drop. I would take a good look at this guy before you walk down that aisle, ya might wind up running later on.
2007-02-24 00:48:41 · answer #9 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You'll be wrong if you ever pick up the phone and talk to this jerk again.
Whoever thumbed this answer down is obviously in a similar one sided abusive "relationship" with some guy who calls her from his girlfriends house and wakes her up to let her hear them cheating on her. Loser!!!
2007-02-24 00:47:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋