I like this girl and this girl like me. But she did told me that she's not ready to be attached and i said i'm willing to wait... but honestly, i can't wait... do i just carry on and ask her the Qn.. whether she wants to be my girlfriend???
2007-02-24 00:38:50 · 5 answers · asked by Red Beret 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
from what i'veseen, relationships that start like that are shallow and short-lived. That maybe what you want; it seems everyone else in the world is okay with. But if not, i would avoid being too blunt about it. Just ry to spend more time together. She'll gradually let down some mental walls against relationships and some day she might just give in and it will be a relationship without having to follow rules set by girlfriend/boyfriends before.
2007-02-24 00:45:41 · answer #1 · answered by xraylemur 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't ask someone to be your girlfriend... instead you spend time with the person, get to know the person and if things work out a relationship develops naturally. The more time you spend with someone the better your chances are of having some sort of relationship, it may end up being that she only like you as a friend, but that's ok, you can never have enough female friends. Just hang out with women, and make as many female friends as you can, eventually one of them will see something in you that will make them say "I want to really get to know him"
2007-02-24 08:48:29 · answer #2 · answered by GRANOLA 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you need to forget it...why can't you listen...she has told you LOUD and CLEAR....being friends with her might be the best thing at this point...I think that you should look around some more...find somebody else...or date different people...you are "Free"...I don't know how old you are...but, hey, while you have your freedom....check out all of the sights around you...ya know...there are a lot of people that might want to date YOU!
Why wait for a hundred and one years...to be her boyfriend..when you can pick out of a lot of fishies in the sea?!!
2007-02-24 08:50:09 · answer #3 · answered by ladyk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is not ready for a realtionship, dont bother ... most of the time when girls are not interested they just go along with the realtionship. if that does happen it probably wont work out. and then you will be hurt in the end. move on... dont wait for her..
2007-02-24 08:50:04 · answer #4 · answered by mia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's not ready she's not ready. Show her much you want her by waiting patiently.
2007-02-24 09:17:12 · answer #5 · answered by megan261980 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋