If you asked your girlfriend to give you space to concentrate on your job or studies and she would not respect it and would become needy of you, how would it make you feel?
2007-02-24 00:31:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trapped and confined, I would expect her to listen to my request, and would be willing to do the same for her.
2007-02-24 00:34:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel a little disrespected but would also understand how I am not giving up more of my time for her as we need each other as much to make a relationship not futile.
But after all, you should really give me some personal space as work and relationship should always be balanced for a healthy lifestyle.
2007-02-24 08:39:30 · answer #2 · answered by . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off if the job or studies are that strenuous, then you probably need to be alone until you can handle it better. on the topic of how it would make me feel, i cant speak for every guy, but it would definitely push me away. cant stand the weak needy chick.
2007-02-24 08:36:37 · answer #3 · answered by freefall929 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him his space chances are he really does need it, if you push it chances are you will push him away. Mind you there is no reason why you simply can't say to him that you just want a message every now and again to see that he is alright.
2007-02-24 08:34:41 · answer #4 · answered by Diz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfind said" he would be pissed off because hes trying to get something done to better him self and shes not respecting him enough to understand what he needs to do" but from a girlfriends point is sometimes you just saying "i have something to do is not enough" we sometimes need a litlle more info,and its not that we dont respect that you have something else to do its just that we love you so much and sometimes its so hard to hear that you need to do something else other then us now thats from both sides of the paper
2007-02-24 08:43:05 · answer #5 · answered by lovely_lightskin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While it might not seem like she respects your request, she might just want to see you more because you said she couldn't. Just tell her when you can and can't see her, and to call ahead to ask if you are free.
2007-02-24 08:38:41 · answer #6 · answered by anto687 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would make me think that she's a stalker and I'd get so far away from her that she wouldn't even remember what I looked like.
2007-02-24 08:34:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel disrespected
2007-02-24 08:35:01 · answer #8 · answered by polk2525 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋