he met a woman on the spot he never knew started calling everday from that point on had unprotected sex with her just a week later they called each other sometimes 25 times a day for almost a year, he says it was mostly sex talk what do you think. i know he slept with her at least 6 times or more
2007-02-24 00:31:25 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You certainly made a wrong choice in marrying the guy. I hope you do better next time.
2007-02-24 00:35:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay - why is he still your husband? This has been going on for over a year and you are still with him?! He broke the vows the minute he started any sort of sex talk with this person. I would not call her a woman by the way.
2007-02-24 08:35:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whew! You better be aware of what this kind of affair will lead your husband into. Have a serious talk with him and try to put some sense into his head. For sure your being a husband and wife relationship is greatly affected with this. So before getting worst better resolve the problem sooner as possible.
2007-02-24 08:40:42 · answer #3 · answered by dimma59 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my God! I think you already know what you should do! Believe me, trust in your inner voice and separate you both! If you still love him get know if he does! It takes time but certainly you have to leave him since you already know this...and you didn't say but how did you find out this- he told you or you first guessed by some evidences? But in both cases you must leave him. And if he didn't tell you about this separate forever! Oh, woman, what will you became if not do this?- a physical and mental ruin...It happened the same to me- only that he told me right away when he did it. I still wake up with awful dreams...You should take some serious steps!
2007-02-24 09:09:07 · answer #4 · answered by Annabelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all he sounds as if he has no interest in being your husband anymore, secondly you should get checked for STD's. Any women who is willing to sleep with a married man after meeting him once more than likely lives this lifestyle with many men. D.I.V.O.R.C.E....get the best lawyer HIS money can buy, and take him for everything he is worth!!! Bast!rd..have some self respect Jackie, by putting up with his Shi**y behavior you are showing him you don't think you deserve any better.
2007-02-24 08:43:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That man is a fool and doesn't deserve you. It is hard to say good-bye to the one you love, but don't shortchange yourself. He needs to be neutered and divorced. He should be your ex-husband. I dated a guy for four and a half years. He cheated on me the 2nd year. IT NEVER STOPS! If it isn't her, it will be someone else. And unprotected sex! oh, hell no! What will you do if he brings a disease into your home? Say it with me... D I V O R C E. Dump that fool, he don't deserve a faithful wife. Or a penis.
2007-02-24 08:39:30 · answer #6 · answered by gi_binky86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater.... GET RID OF HIM!!!!!!!!! If he would not only betray you by hooking up with another woman, but in addition has so little respect for you and himself that he is having unprotected sex he needs to GO! Nobody can make a "victim" of you, except you so take some stock in yourself and make a life of your own...you'll eventually meet someone else who might actually be good for you.
2007-02-24 08:49:35 · answer #7 · answered by andiw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this point it doesn't matter too much what we think. If you would keep someone like this around, that is your decision. If you want to know what I'd do, I'd get an attorney and get a divorce and take every penny I could from him. Then I'd take a vacation down to the Bahamas, forget his ***, and think about the great future I'd have without the bastard.
2007-02-24 08:43:33 · answer #8 · answered by J F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take that husband and dump his ***. He is a very insecure person who has no regards for anyone's feelings but his own.
You need to feel better about yourself and that comes from within you. Not from a relationship. Start stashing money away, hire an attorney and get out of this no win situation.
2007-02-24 08:36:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does it matter what we think? He's your "husband". I think you shouldn't have gotten married in the first place. It never works. Now what are you gonna do if you find out he's got some kind of disease from these loose women and gives it to you?
2007-02-24 08:36:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋