2007-02-24 00:22:18 · 11 answers · asked by Purnendu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Quit dwelling on what will never be. Move on. Make yourself do it. Find a new someone. Give it up to God. (or Creator of your choice). Whatever you do spiritually, or not. Is this other person telling you to get over them, move on, or what ? There's a lot of different "situations".
2007-02-24 00:28:50 · answer #1 · answered by Scorpius59 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try focusing your attention towards Allah by prayers.He is the best.You would forget about the one you want to forget and remember Him.Also involve yourself in daily activities and interact a lot with good friends.Keep looking around for a good substitute believe me after a while you will forget all about the past and love the future.Be Positive you will InshAllahtala find someone even better than the other person you want to forget.
2007-02-24 00:28:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking at them on a pedestal or in a light of perfection. Write down all the things you truly hated about them, including physical things, before they grew on you. Obviously there is a reason you need to forget them, right? Focus completely on the bad things. Try to bring up bad experiences and thoughts you had while with them. And also remember (this one is important) that they are NOT the grass that is greener on the other side!! You CAN go back and have them if you want them. But do you really want that??
2007-02-24 00:27:26 · answer #3 · answered by Aphrodite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a ceremony for this person. Fill a room with all their things that you still have or reminds you of them, then rip them up or burn them (carefully). Think only of them for an hour solidly and tell yourself never to come back to those things or thoughts again.
Treat it like a 'living' funeral, the americans call it disclosure.
2007-02-24 00:38:03 · answer #4 · answered by utterly_emilie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make yourself busy most of the time coz being alone in a absolute silence bring about all memories.
2007-02-24 00:29:10 · answer #5 · answered by Sara007 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go out with your friends...
don't be alone...
or, you start to write how do you feel everyday in a journal...
it's help you to forget that person..
and of course make yourself buzy in order to forget that person
2007-02-24 00:31:42 · answer #6 · answered by denise 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go out with your friends, get drunk, give new people your number, have fun, do things you and your partner couldnt do, or they wouldn't do with you. never regret, just move on because life will go on whether you want it to or not, life will go on.
2007-02-24 00:41:30 · answer #7 · answered by jazzy xo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd get someone new. It always worked for me when I was dating.
Don't forget: "When you're 22 you're single, when you're 38, you're just ALONE."
2007-02-24 00:27:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
go to sleep and make sure you don't dream about them.
2007-02-24 00:25:35 · answer #9 · answered by tripppah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes a sure fire way to forget someone..........................time.
2007-02-24 00:27:00 · answer #10 · answered by vnhlsng 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋