i want to know weather he wil be fit for me who every time thinks of his family and sis
2007-02-24 00:22:09 · 13 answers · asked by jaiswalhema 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
let that person go and find a new one
a lover is the one who will leave everything for u leave that person the he or she will realize ur importance
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2007-02-25 23:31:01 · answer #1 · answered by sisilya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he is not the right choice then.If he postponds bcoz of his mom n sis that means r they not ready imean does his family doent like you????
N if his family is his priority n not u abhi se then what will happen after marriage dear.Of all it sounds he himself has not made up his mind."Those who love they marry" remember.
Are 4 love a person becomes ready to leave his parents yaar.
2007-02-24 09:01:48 · answer #2 · answered by annie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont let this guy put his family before you.
When two people are together in a marriage they are supposed to put their relationship first, even before family. He sounds like he may be a "mama's boy", maybe you should stop and think if you'd be able to spend the next 20 years with this guy.
Now stop to think about all his bad habits...
and now take another 5 minutes to think about everything he does that annoys you...
Now, do you think you could live with that everyday for the rest of your life?
2007-02-24 10:51:21 · answer #3 · answered by babs_bunnii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy who thinks of his family and sis should be admired because this is the kind of guy who will also think about you and his children later in life. However if the relationship makes you feel miserble and unwanted, move on to other pastures. YOU should be able to tell the difference between a partner and a doormat. If he thinks you are a doormat, move on.
2007-02-24 08:47:02 · answer #4 · answered by Suparna B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately i married a man whose family always came first, and eventually it does get old, his past is a great predictor of what the future will be like. as time goes by u will begin to feel more resentment and it will in time affect the marriage. in marriages if we aren't really the priority it does cause problems, if i had it to do over, no i would never marry someone who was so into his family that my needs went unmet. eventually hard feelings will come and he will have to choose them or u, and often times they don't choose u.
2007-02-24 08:29:03 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO A THOUSHAND TIMES NO. It is not going to suddenly change just because you marry him. IF he puts his mom and sis before you now, he is gonna do it after the wedding. Don't marry this man he is not fit for you.
2007-02-24 08:26:08 · answer #6 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y not first try to understand what is the really prob.behind everything.might be he loves u verymuch n want to marry u but haveing some probs.4 now??? Y u say he always think about his family?y they r no one to u???might be sis n law but sis at the end.think about it.
2007-02-24 08:59:22 · answer #7 · answered by sherry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he keeps promising and postponing the marriage then better go for someone who really loves you more than anyone or else you will be kuvari till you die
2007-02-27 05:27:36 · answer #8 · answered by Raj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! If he puts his family in front of you while you are dating, it will only get worst. Find another person to give your heart to. Good Luck!
2007-02-24 12:23:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
see if you want to marry him sit and talk with him,if all the proble
ms are solved on his side then you can marry him,without telling
your problem to him you cant do anything in this issue.
2007-02-25 01:43:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋