is this the right way to break up with a boyfriend through the phone if u are to scared to do it in person?

Question

but i like somebody else and i dont want to be with my boyfriend because he disrepected me twice and my friends and i like this boy alot and i want to be with him so what do i do

Answer 1

Regardless of how your boyfriend disrespected you...you should not break up over the phone. Never ever break up with anyone over the phone, it shows total lack of class and decency, especially if you've been seeing him for quite a while. Breaking up with anyone that you've been in a relationship with for over a month should be done in person. The boyfriend/girlfriend deserves the chance to talk to you face to face and to have a proper closure of the relationship. Calling someone on the phone and saying "See ya later" is just simply rude.

Answer 2

I agree that it is best to break up in person, it shows that you care and you want the best for them as well as yourself. However, if you do feel that this person may become violent or abusive towards you, then the phone is the best action.
Remember whatever goes around, comes around. Do what your instincts tell you is best.

Answer 3

you need to be woman enough to let him know that you don't want to date him anymore. dont do it over the phone i think he deserves a little more than that, and i think he might want an explaination. treat people the way you want to be treated

Answer 4

well break up on the phone or say it in his face it will not matter alot coz breakup is breakup no matter how it ended or when.

Answer 5

It would be better to do it in person unless you're in fear for your life.