I have a choice...really good pricing on a home for myself which includes; having my independance, among other things versus; quitting my current job, move from family, etc and move to another state to be with my one true love, my soul mate, the person who means everything to me. I'm torn as to the right decision to make..Advise please!!
2007-02-24 00:18:24 · 13 answers · asked by cutegirlin_tn 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get the house, not many people can get an affordable home. Don't lose that opportunity or you will find out you have fallen 'out of love with your soul mate and will be bitter forever!! Nothing is forever cept death and taxes.. but a home you can have for a long long time.
2007-02-24 00:21:31 · answer #1 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you call them good and GREAT tells us a lot. The one thing you didn't comment on are the schools. Since you plan to have a family (based on other posts) and will be there at least 5-8 years, schools are very important. You should always pick the best neighborhood and schools. That being aside, and only based on your post, I would take the good house. It wil cost less to own. And as for the landscaping on the great house. THIS IS A PAID SERVICE. Unless you plan to continue to pay to have it look this way, within 1 year, it will look like the other house.
2016-05-24 05:22:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone I know including myself who have moved interstate for a relationship have found out that was a mistake ! Although there may be a blessing in disguise after the two of you eventually break up ! Why cant you buy your own place than visit on a couple of holidays than if you want rent out your own place to go and live with him ? If he was your soul mate you would already be with him now and we wouldn't be posting Questions would we !
2007-02-24 00:25:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you very, very close to your family? I can't imagine that a job would factor in as heavily as kin.
You have to choose where you want to go in life. That may not be the same place your family is. I say move in with your soul mate and make sure you visit home often.
2007-02-24 00:22:21 · answer #4 · answered by Aimee L 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you answered your own question.
If you buy the house, you are tied down where you are, makes moving in the future more difficult.
If he is that important to you, and your "soul mate" as you say, don't you think you belong at his side?
Make sure before you pack up everything and head his way that is what he wants too, though.
2007-02-24 01:07:06 · answer #5 · answered by Mr R 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are you doing, asking for a consensus?
The decision is yours, alone.
Just remember, you can rent a house if you can't be in it.
You can have a long distance relationship -watch
"Continental divide" - a funny movie, with an allegory.
Another issue is that you can do both.
Make your own decision, you've got to live with it.
2007-02-24 00:36:45 · answer #6 · answered by Wonka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
on one hand love not to sure or to stay and be safe what life without the unknown and fun on the way . ps allways leave a way back to where you belong when thing go wrong
2007-02-24 00:29:20 · answer #7 · answered by thomas a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love fades and gets real, so you need to be a realist as well. Don't change your life for some guy. Get smart and stay there!
2007-02-24 00:22:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take care of yourself, girl. Get the house. If things work out with you and lovey dovey, it's a good investment. Hopefully, you won't be the one taking all the responsibility. What does he do??? What's he doing for you ?
2007-02-24 00:25:00 · answer #9 · answered by Scorpius59 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Purchase a small house for yourself first because you never can tell, what if you later break up with your lover?
Buy one for yourself, then you could visit him in his own...
Hope this helps..
2007-02-24 00:25:03 · answer #10 · answered by codedfeelins 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋