2 months ago I asked my fiancee for time apart; things were moving fast, marriage was coming, and I thought I needed to think alone. She was very upset, but I insisted and didnt see her for a month. I realized how much I loved and I asked her to take me back. At first she was still angry at me and she was dating someone else but broke that off after 1 week. She forgave me and we are happly engaged again. Recently I found out that she had sex with the other guy before she took me back. She says she wanted to have sex and she was free to so. She also said the guy was very sweet and she was the one who had made the decision. She told him she would go back to me, and that he coud have one night only. We have talked about how she was hurt, and also about the sex we are back in love and my heart knows she is the one, but it bothers me that she admits she also wanted to teach me a lesson for hurting her so bad, and I wonder if it was right of her to make me feel jealous... but should I ??
2007-02-24 00:01:07 · 8 answers · asked by downtokissit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are a fool and she had every right to do what she did. You deserved it. How dare you think you can just play yo-yo with someone's feelings. You are very lucky that she took you back, I wouldn't have fogiven you ever. She had ever right to sleep with whoever she wanted, you wanted a break didn't you? What did you think she was gonna do sit around and wait for you to play your little games? Get down on your knees and start kissing her feet that she even talked to you ever again. You got some nerve to be upset. You are the cause of all of this. You brought it on yourself so now take it like a man.
2007-02-24 00:08:09 · answer #1 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Did you sleep with someone else...back when you told you...I need a break...you know when you say I do.
Things will not change...she will always go do another guy.
IF you give her reason.
I am not like that...but..I have friends who are....if their husbands only knew what the extent of their behavior really is....I had a friend who slept with her husbands best Man...at the
wedding...and kept sleeping with him....until the husband found out.....and he took her back....only to find out she kept doing it.
2007-02-24 08:11:52 · answer #2 · answered by Bobbie4u 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the way i see it if you wernt jealous you wouldnt love her and men who are hurt can only show this in a violent act because men cant handle the pain i think you know what you want not so sure about your significant other
2007-02-24 08:22:13 · answer #3 · answered by harleyhoney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy, What u have done is absolutely wrong. so, dont take it so much deeply what she had done with the other guy. if u still love her forgive her & made promise her that she wont do this happen again.
2007-02-24 22:13:09 · answer #4 · answered by ferdousprogrammer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, in this instance, you both were right. You recognized that you weren't mature enough to be married, and she recognized that she wasn't ready for it.
Cut your losses, my friend. If you're going to get cold feet and she's going to warm hers in another bed that fast, you two were not meant to be.
2007-02-24 08:05:05 · answer #5 · answered by Aimee L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two wrongs don't make a right, now do they?
2007-02-24 08:10:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the act of jealousy is a sin.
2007-02-24 08:08:48 · answer #7 · answered by tripppah 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i agree with Cindy Lu..
she wouldn't do it if you have not hurt her.
2007-02-24 08:15:33 · answer #8 · answered by jhen 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋