Ok all I want is a nice, polite, raised in a higher class society, and smart person. Unfortunitely everyone at my school (I'm in a rich neighborhood by the way) is either
-Fat
-Dumb
-Slob
-A Person Who Dates 10 Guys At Once
Or some mix of those. So what do I do?
2007-02-23 21:41:48 · 11 answers · asked by darrkadlubowski 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My IQ is 180+
But I still can't spell (LOL)
2007-02-23 21:47:58 · update #1
It's not someone rich that I'm asking for. "High Class" does meen ricj but they allways are more proper about things. Proper is what I want.
2007-02-24 16:57:48 · update #2
Be true to your own self and never settle for less that is right for your own personal desires.
Of the four choices, actually five, I'd say none of those is a choice I'd take from. I'd rather be alone by myself then be alone in a relationship / friendship with the wrong person. If you are with any type that does not suit you...you will mostly likely not feel fulfilled and valuing with that person...thus feeling lonely / empty with that person.
The heart is too precious not to be patient for. Be your own best friend...and tell your best friend..." Don't be with a person who you just settle for ".
It took me awhile to learn to live by that standard and right at this moment I have no guy or friend in my life that I don't feel a mutually valuing relationship or friendship with. Yet, I'm fine with that as I value myself and who I share my heart and friendship with. I also care about any I might meet that I would not be with or stay with that person if I did not truly care and VALUE them.
Note that this can apply to love relationships of all kinds, boyfriends, girlfriends, friendships, etc.
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2007-02-23 21:45:00 · answer #1 · answered by onelight 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If they date 10 guys at once,are you fearing that you can't handle the competition,or do you really believe that all females are sluts?
As far as the "raised ina a higher class society",I come from the exact background,but will tell you,that when it comes to love(and many other things for that matter),a person's "breeding" is not so high on my list since you usually end up with some shallow person you can't really stand anyway.Maybe you should reconsider your value system,and then maybe your world would open up a little more.
Otherwise,if it is shallow wealthy women you are going after,perhaps you could stop complaining that the ones you've met are "fat","dumb","slobs",and get used to this type of life you have chosen for yourself.
Good luck to you...
2007-02-24 05:50:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
So you are looking for a nice polite and a smart guy well anyone will love to have that kind of personality but does it really has to do with FAT or HIGHER CLASS
Ok Leave,
let me tell you the secret how i met with this girl, with all the qualities i wished a girl should have. It was an ordinary day and i was doing my regular work and a cute girl just walked by, i bowed my head and said hellooo and she did the same thing, we talked for a couple of minutes and are best friends right now
so the bottom line is if you want a nice, polite, cute, smart guy just be the same ( it works )and if you want nice, cute, polite,smart guy raised in higher class society then you got to be LUCKY
OK i made that story for you but really if you want something of quality you should have something of quality in you.....
2007-02-24 06:27:47 · answer #3 · answered by sonu 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you cant find any one within the circles of your society why not look for somewhere else? decent person doesn't necessary mean that they came from a high society so to speak. you can also find such from normal society as well. try to have a polite conversation and try to be in a low profile so people would not assume you as a snob, high class invidual who may intimidate them.
2007-02-24 05:49:34 · answer #4 · answered by tom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know but you sound naive!!!
first good hard working people usually are not rich!
then don't ever judge people for their looking or their neighborhood !
PS. My Husband is over weight and not rich ..but i totally believe that he is the best man in the world ..he is had worker ..value the concept of marriage, generous , appreciate good life because he tried the hard one
2007-02-24 05:53:08 · answer #5 · answered by Silent tear 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well you can be my friend. im decent, polite, well-raised and educated person. by the way, i dont date 10 guys at once, im not a flirt. friendly but not flirt. here's my email if you want to be my friend sheestoy@yahoo.com
2007-02-24 05:47:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you sound really fukkin judgmental....the ppl, and I'm only assuming their "girls" here, are better off without you since you view them in this manner without even bothering to try and get to know them or what they're about.....
If you lived in my neighborhood I wouldn't give ya a first look, nm a second....
2007-02-24 06:01:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It seems here that you should be asking yourself the question of "Am I a decent person"?.
2007-02-24 05:50:12 · answer #8 · answered by Natasha23 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
look in the mirror first ,then decide who's decent
2007-02-24 05:45:13 · answer #9 · answered by booge 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe you don't get dates cause you are dumb!!! ever think of that?
2007-02-24 05:46:26 · answer #10 · answered by LanternPrime 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋