ok i know this is not a good answer to ask but im scared i lost my virginaty to my boyfriend martino we didnt use anything to protect us from having a kid he called me today and asked me to do it again i want to do it but i dont have money and he dosent to so we cant bye anything to protect us please help me
2007-02-23 12:11:01 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well we have money to buy rubbers but where i live ther is only like two stores and my mom works at on and the other one my moms friend works ther so thats why we plenty of money just not the nerve
2007-02-24 09:59:19 · update #1
Sounds like you're not yet old enough to handle the responsibility of having sex if you can't afford condoms. Go to your local planned parenthood(the condoms are free), if you insist on doing it you might as well be safe. But think about it, you have your whole life ahead of you, why not wait a while longer until you're ready to handle the whole aspect of sex.
Take Care! and get those condoms before you do anything!
Tori
2007-02-23 12:18:06 · answer #1 · answered by Incognito 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can go to planned parent hood it is a free clinic and it's totally confidential. If you don't have enough money to buy condoms think how broke you will be if you get pregnant. Don't have sex until you get protection. Plus if you get pregnant you will learn Martino probably didn't really want to be with you any.
2007-02-24 01:31:18 · answer #2 · answered by andyskandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, you don't sound ready to have sex if you cannot protect yourself. You need to have more self respect than that. Not to be insulting but...you should get yourself tested for HIV because he may have it, you never know.. you don't just get HIV from having sex. Then, tell him you both are not ready for this - at least until you have condoms or birth control of any sort that protects from pregnancy AND ST D's. There are so many people in this world that don't care and it carries on and spreads the HIV virus. Please, do not have sex until you are protected!!! Your local health clinic or health unit should give out free condoms. IF your boyfriend gets mad at you for saying you cannot have sex, dump him!!! Tell someone if you feel threatened. Also, you should talk to your doctor and tell him you had sex for the first time and didn't use a condom.. because there is a possibility you could get pregnant from this.
2007-02-23 12:16:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I really think you should not have an type of sex what so ever. You may think that it is fun and feels good, but in all reality, your boyfriend is using you for his own pleasure. He doesn't respect you or your body at all because he is using you like you are some kind of 'whore', because that's what it is.
So, you need to respect yourself as a woman or girl does, instead of being used by someone who doesn't really care or respect you.
Sex should only be with someone you are married to, not to some one off the streets. You will make a huge mistake if you become pregnant just because this boyfriend of yours didn't respect you and wanted pleasure, but doesn't care about the consequences. Re-think this.
2007-02-23 12:25:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont buy expensive condoms. Hunnie, no matter what he tells you, he should be able to afford one!
Think about if you do have a kid, how do you think you could afford that! Thats a never ending expense for 18 years!
Good luck!
2007-02-23 12:15:44 · answer #5 · answered by Hannah 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Go to the nearest women's clinic. They offer protection for low or no costs. It could be condoms, birth control pills or other options. You SHOULD never use unprotected sex. There are too many cons then pros. Don't take that chance.
2007-02-23 12:17:32 · answer #6 · answered by Meredith 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He should respect your decision just for having already done it with him in the first place. First of all make sure your not pregnant...that could altercate things a little but then just try and talk with him. That would be your best shot.
2007-02-23 12:16:45 · answer #7 · answered by Steve M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Planned Parenthood has condoms at the door in a fishbowl for the taking in most cities...
2007-02-23 12:14:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Go volunteer to spend a day or two helping in a preschool. If that doesn't make you want to abstain, it'll surely motivate you to scrounge up some condom cash.
2007-02-23 12:21:29 · answer #9 · answered by nadsblowhard 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
how about not doing it if you can't afford condoms I doubt you can afford the responsibilities and consequences that come with laying on your back... you lost something you don't know how to spell why not read a book instead and strengthen that vocabulary
2007-02-23 12:18:40 · answer #10 · answered by Jessica R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋