whould it be wrong of me to do so?
2007-02-23 10:11:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
STD? Which one??? I have HSV2 and my husband still marries me. He didn't run away. Visit to http://www.thebody.com
go to the forum safe sex and hiv prevention. Dr. Frascino is HIV positive and his partner Dr. is negative (they both are gays). Dr.Frascino got HIV from one of his patient by accident while performing medical routine. so, depending on how much you love or want her and what kind of STDs. After all, it's all about your mind and your sacrifices. but always be careful when having intimate relationship if you do not want to contract any of stds from her. by talking, you can't get STDs.
2007-02-26 20:29:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-02 18:59:08 · answer #2 · answered by Roger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the ethics of STDs and relationships aside for now, the term "STD" itself can mean a lot of different things. A sexually transmitted disease can be anything from the incurable, eventually terminal HIV infection to the incurable but very benign herpes simplex virus to the both curable and, from what I hear, not so bad chlamydia and gonorrhea infections which can often have no symptoms at all. And of course there're a whole host of bugs and viruses all along that spectrum. Point is, if all you know is she "has an STD" then you don't really have a whole lot to work with.
As far as what to do? Well I obviously don't know you or the girl, but if she truly is "everything I could ask for" are you gonna let an infection, regardless of its severity, keep you from that?
2007-02-23 10:36:53 · answer #3 · answered by El_Guapo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
75% of all Americans have some sort of STD. If you only want to be with someone who does not have one, your pool is pretty limited.
She told you she has it. That tells me that she is trustworthy and concerned about your feelings and health. She would not take a chance at risking yours the way the others you have been with have. How many of them were tested before they were with you? Did they show you the results? Chances are they just assumed they did not have one, or they chose not to tell you if they did.
I think this girl is a keeper!
2007-02-23 11:15:29 · answer #4 · answered by mutherluv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its your choice to not talk to her because of an STD, but if I were you, Id say theres nothing wrong with being her friend. She might need one to talk to about it. If you do have sexual feelings about her, talk to her about the STD and get information about it, and by all means protect yourself with a condom if you decide to have sex. But not talkin to someone cuz they have an STD is a little immature if you ask me, unless you are only looking for one thing from that girl!
2007-02-23 11:32:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you both need to have a serious talk because if she told you then you might have something. find out if it can be cured and if it can be she should make an appointment with her obgyn and get it taken care of. what most People need to understand is that things happen and that not all people with std's are sluts or nasty people they just put their trust in someone and it turned out to be a BIG mistake...we all make mistakes. but if you really like this girl i would suggest that you find out more about her and work it out if u want because no one can decide for you it's your life. Make sure you get tested also just in case because you never know with people that way if you do decide to further your relationship with her you can both go into this "clean"
2007-02-23 11:19:49 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must discuss w/ her how it makes you feel, the last you should do is just not talk to her, b/c unfortunately these days it's very common and at least she was honest w/ you before just passing it along. You must give her credit for that, b/c it can be so embarrassing! You may still have a very productive sex life w/ her, PROTECTED and it sounds as if she is aware of what she needs to do to keep herself protected. But be sympathetic and understanding and hopefully she'll understand where you are coming from etc... communicate, i would be devastated if a guy left me b/c i was being honest w/ him and he walked away.
2007-02-24 02:47:52 · answer #7 · answered by hugabug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is okay for you to talk to her. Just because she has a STD doesn't mean shes a bad person it just means that she got with the wrong person. And whatever she has May be curable. Go ahead and talk to her what can't hurt. But... don't get intimate for a while.
2007-02-23 10:37:00 · answer #8 · answered by reddchilds 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of STD, there are many.....
If you like her then it shouldnt matter. If her having one changes your mind, then there is your answer.
Just protect yourself whatever you do, and dont make her feel low about having one.
Best of luck!
2007-02-23 10:50:17 · answer #9 · answered by MommyTwice-TwiceTheLove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats y she has everything you could ask for shes not gonna be choosy cuz shes an std floozy
2007-02-23 10:56:38 · answer #10 · answered by wtf 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋