Help I had sex with A guy who had told me that he had helped someone that had HIV.He did'nt have any open sores or anything.What should I do.I love him and think we will last.HELP
2007-02-22 14:13:01 · 11 answers · asked by Angela R 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
And to make It worse he did'nt use A condem.And how he helped was A lady who was HIV Positive had A head concussion,and helped wrap her head without any gloves.
2007-02-22 14:30:58 · update #1
NEVER HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX unless you plan for all consequences. THIS BEING ONE OF THEM. If he had no open cuts or wounds then he more then likely never got infected. If I were you I would make him go with you to your doctors office and have them run a check on the both of you
2007-02-22 14:51:43 · answer #1 · answered by p_c_landscape 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is a real concern, go to your doctor and get tested. But keep in mind, people with HIV are not lepers, and simply being in the same room as them doesn't put you at any risk of contracting the virus. HIV is transmitted by the exchange of bodily fluids, so keep that in mind. If this hasnt eased your mind, maybe you and your guy can both be tested to put your minds at ease.
I'm sure you are fine.
2007-02-22 22:18:28 · answer #2 · answered by kimison_au 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys will say anything, won't they?
Did he use protection? Not just for the transfer of HIV but for the prevention of unwanted pregnancy.
You don't have to have open sores to transfer a sexually transmitted disease.
If it's wet and it's not yours - you could catch something.
You might consider being tested.
2007-02-22 22:18:43 · answer #3 · answered by Silly Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get tested because you don't know what he has.I'm not saying he could be HIV because he worked with patients.I am HIV and those people are professionals and take extra precautions.Why would you have unprotected sex.Do you want to get AIDS?You better smarten up girl,.
2007-02-24 16:13:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The odds of your friend contracting HIV just by helping some one is very slim but if you are really nervis about it, it is very simple to get a test at any health care facility fo you or him.
2007-02-22 22:20:32 · answer #5 · answered by ChefAdam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you must be terrified.....secondly if he didnt have any open sores or cuts on his unprotected hands he is probably fine...the skin is a barrier as long as it isnt broken he is probably fine...he should be getting tested as a precaution though and it is very irresponsible of him to have unprotected sex ( as is you) especially when he obviously feels that he may have been exposed...
if you are worried (which you sound) it wont hurt to get tested...and let this be a lesson to you..do not have unprotected sex, all it takes is one time and one time only to either knock you up or put you out...
2007-02-22 23:31:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats why you are supposed to use comdoms all the time until you both get tested, no matter how much you like this person or how many lies he tells you, when i was married we always used comdoms, and thank god we did because i found out later that my husband was gay, thats why i left him. go check yourself and have him do the same.
2007-02-23 00:35:49 · answer #7 · answered by fallen_angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get tested both of you fast. Thats the only way to know.
2007-02-23 00:37:14 · answer #8 · answered by Rosie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your going to need to get tested. You may be risking your life for a man who is living his to the extreme.
2007-02-23 08:30:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think he has HIV or you do then you need to get tested for it. contact your nearest hospital and see if they do it. I hope you used a condom during sex
2007-02-22 22:17:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋