Exactly what the title says.. I got an std from my boyfriend...but he wont admit its from him..What should I do since he will not admit it..he said he got tested before we got together..which i think is bull..he slept with like 3 girls a few months post us getting together. What should I do in this situation..i dunno what the STD is yet so im awaiting results.
2007-02-22 09:18:33 · 11 answers · asked by veryconfused 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
u need to leave that jerk of a boyfriend alone. He was probably cheating on you too. You better hope that you have a treatable std and not one that you will have for life. and please realise that aids and hiv is still out there.
2007-02-22 13:41:31 · answer #1 · answered by The one and only 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know you have an std but don't know what one???? ........... The doctor will not tell a patient you have an STD unless they can tell you right then and there what it is... if you are having something funny going on down there, it could very well be a yeast infection or bacterial vaginosis....
Wait until you get these results back before you start pointing fingers. Also, some things like HPV might not show any signs and they dont normally test for men unless they have a wart to biopsy. The way they find out a woman has it, is if she has an abnormal pap smear ()which in turn could mean cervical cancer) If you had an abnormal pap smear and you have HPV, you could have had that for years before it showed an abnormal pap test.
If it is something like chlamydia then chances are he got it and gave it to you. BUT this also shows no signs in women, and you could have had it for quite sometime. - which could end up in Pelvic Inflammatory Disease and could leave you sterile or a chance in having an ectopic pregnancy due to scarring. In this case, if you have had it for a long time.... you may have it had it before him and never knew.
Think about what all could have happened. If beyond a shadow of a doubt you got this from him, leave him. He obviously was not faithful to you and shows absolutely NO remorse for it.
Good Luck. Hope everything turns out ok for you.
2007-02-22 10:40:16 · answer #2 · answered by ishyboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know without a shadow of a doubt that you have not cheated on your partner,then you need to leave him,it is so easy to pick up an std these days as some of them are completley symptom free in men.if he does not admit to it then he is witholding information from you which is deceitful.This is your health, if you love him and want to give him another chance then he needs to go to get tested b4 you two can sort things over if your both clear then its like having a clean slate but if you get infected again and you have not cheated then you know its him and you will know what to do about it when the time comes. Good luck
2007-02-22 09:27:36 · answer #3 · answered by happylove_bunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like you are dating a jerk! Pray that this std is treatable, and curable then dump his sorry behind. Always use protection... it will help this situation to not come up again. He could have gotten tested, and nothing showed up at that time, but I would still be a little peeved at him. Best of luck.
2007-02-22 09:26:45 · answer #4 · answered by Sara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be more careful sweetie those, the std u got is just the one that has symptoms several are symptomatic for a long period of time, I'm glad that your getting tested, all i can say that is if yoUr gonna sleep with him still, tell him to use protection cause ur just gonna get reinfected over and over again
2007-02-22 12:24:46 · answer #5 · answered by rizo_rocker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait and see which STD you have... it's very possible that he didn't know he had one. Just because he was "tested" doesn't mean that he is completely clear of all STDs. There are some that can only be tested for when there is an outbreak... they sit dormant i your body sometimes for years!!!
If he's not th eonly person you've been with, then it might not have been him, it could have been partners from your past.
2007-02-22 10:21:48 · answer #6 · answered by naenae0011 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah herpes is the main straight forward std obtainable, and its continuously. Aids, hep C, and an entire checklist of hardship. Now think of in case you ignore and dont tell each physique you may desire to provide them something to keep in mind you by utilising.
2016-09-29 11:54:19 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick the std disease given lying jerk to the curb.
2007-02-22 09:52:12 · answer #8 · answered by Roxy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st wait for the results. Have you ever slept with anyone else? Are you POSITIVE it's from him? If so, I would stop having unprotected sex with him, possibly even dump him.
2007-02-22 10:25:26 · answer #9 · answered by Dawnita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you dating him??????????
2007-02-22 13:24:12 · answer #10 · answered by Peacen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋