This question is for everybody.I used to model and could never get a date.I 'am extremly outgoing and funny and full of life , but man can't even look in my eyes when I try to talk to them or be funny.Are man intiminated by good looks?What do I do? I even left a church once because none of the wifes would talk to me .I never cared about my looks but it,s starting to get on my nerves.I'am just a person who wants to meet people. Also some of my friend"s are always picking on me Like my hair is to long , to reddish, I have cat eyes , to tall I'am always getting put down.I'am also german do you think that is a turn off ? HELP !! Thanks you all!
Hugs , Nicole : )
2007-02-21 15:54:35 · 10 answers · asked by Nicole C 2 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Heart Diseases
If you come on too strong a man will back down because they like to feel like they are better than you. Give him that feeling for the first few dates and just try and be a little more passive. We really don't like it when a girl acts like she is all that.
Kyle
Just a hint.... do what he wants to do on the first date and don't be afraid to ask a guy out in a nice way.
2007-02-21 16:04:15 · answer #1 · answered by kyle m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rough deal. Its the story of life, the grass is always greener on the other side. Its tough to answer something like that. If I was in your shoes I would be more aggressive with guys. I don't mean being 'all up' but saying hello and being friendly to everyone. Eventually you'll find someone that takes a liking and you click with. I'm 25 and I still find it a pain in the *** to find a decent person when out and about, so its may be partially the luck of the draw.
Guys always are intimidated by looks. Its an internal numbers game when they figure what they should be aiming for by whats in front of them. Someone that is going for a 7 will be awkward talking to a 10.
2007-02-22 00:00:48 · answer #2 · answered by n_m_young 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Nicole
It's about the energy you project (could even be unconscious). What do you really want from a man? More importantly what do you want for yourself? The law of attraction is what you think, visualize, and feel inside you. If you're focused on "I cant attract a man" then you get more of that energy. If you're focused on the good traits you mentioned about yourself then men will flock to you. Sounds strange, but simple. You could be bald and 5'2 and I would be attracted to you, if you have a certain confidence or energy I like. Not all about looks.
Enjoy your evening and focus on that beautiful person inside you and you'll have everything you want and more.
2007-02-22 00:08:30 · answer #3 · answered by Natural Healer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Few things intimidate men more than IRS audits and 12-foot birdie putts. A beautiful woman is one of them. A beautiful woman-whether spotted at work, in bookstores, driving in the next lane, anywhere-simply has the power to turn a man of steel into creamed corn. Men know this. Men try to resist this. Ultimately, it's a challenge. Beauty may be a short-lived form of power, but it is profound, and nearly all men cower before it. It can make them do really, really stupid things.
2007-02-22 00:03:24 · answer #4 · answered by mommyramey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself- are you too friendly? are you being fake? maybe you are meeting people at the wrong places. Don't feel bad, a friend of mine is a model and no one likes her. Compliment someone, more often maybe. Your friends might be picking on you because they are jealous of you, or intimidated. No, being German is NOT a turn-off. People are attracted to people of all nationalities. Try to focus on your good features- like you don't have to worry about being too short. (as far as red hair, i think it looks pretty) Try turning the friendliness down slightly, and let ppl come up to u. Good luck, don't give up.
2007-02-22 00:01:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask around a lot and see what comments you get. But you need to be confident in yourself, too, of course. It is possible they're imitated, but if you are still upset you can always change your look for the better. I highly doubt every man thinks your ugly, it could be just your imagination. Whatever it is, be sure to take care of yourself.
2007-02-22 00:05:05 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah Jessica Elizabeth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably, you're just hard to reach. Probably becoz of your beauty, it may appear to them that you're unapproachable. Probably, women to are insecure. SO wHAT YOU SHOULD DO is try to be the first to approach or open up to them so that they'll know the real you. They're actually quite hesitant to be friends with you cause you're quite superior for them.
2007-02-22 00:41:28 · answer #7 · answered by Donna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are very intimadated by beauty, and so are women. Men don't think they have a chance with you because of your beauty, and women hate your beauty thinking your out to steal their husbands or boyfriends. Good Luck!
2007-02-22 00:04:18 · answer #8 · answered by Shamoe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK YOUR PERFECT, BUT BE SURE YOUR BREATH SMELLS GOOD. TOO MUCH GARLIC, ETC CAN TURN PEOPLE AWAY. DONT IMAGINE STUFF , AND BE A GOOD LISTENER AND DONT TALK ALL THE TIME. MAYBE YOUR JEWELRY IS TOO FLASHY OR YOUR MAKEUP IS TOO HEAVY . OR MAYBE YOU YELL WHEN YOU TALK OR TALK TOO SOFTLY SO PEOPLE HAVE TO SAY " WHAT DID YOU SAY ? " YOUR SMART SO IM SURE YOU WILL FIGURE IT OUT.
2007-02-22 02:39:24 · answer #9 · answered by woolly worm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ugly... prove me wrong with pix
2007-02-22 00:06:41 · answer #10 · answered by jaymz_20au 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋