Hello,
I have no idea of your age, but at any age I would warn you that unprotected sex of any kind (including oral sex) can put you and/or your partner at risk for giving or getting a sexually transmitted disease (some of which can kill you or him). The best protection against this is, of course, abstinence (no sex of any kind). However, it seems you may have already decided to be sexually active. So, with warning in mind, I'll try to help answer your question.
The way your partner feels what you are doing to him is exactly the same way you feel anything that is done to you. We all feel sensations through our five senses (sight, smell, taste, touch, and hearing). All our senses are due to nerve fibers that go to every part of a normal healthy body. So, if you are touched on your arm, just above your right wrist, those nerve fibers are excited and will send impulses to your brain. Your brain interprets them and decides if they represent pressure, pleasure, or pain, and sends a response to that nerve about what it should do to the surrounding muscles or tissue. For example, if someone is touching you with a feather, you will probably find that pleasant and will let it continue. However, you could find it ticklish and pull away. If someone is touching you with something very very hot, you will pull away more quickly, because your nerves have an automatic reflex system to prevent you from being harmed.
So, this is the physical basis for any of us experiencing any sort of touch anywhere on our body. If you are engaging in oral sex with your friend, he will feel what you do to him because the nerve fibers in that part of his body will be activated. The more intensely you do something, the more intensely he will feel it, even to the point where he could experience pain.
You asked if the skin needs to be pulled back. I assume your partner has not been circumsized. If that's the case, just ask him which feels better to him; if you stimulate him with the foreskin covering the head of his penis, or if he likes it better with the foreskin pulled back. He will be able to tell you what gives him the most pleasure.
Again, I don't know your age or maturity level, nor that of your partner. If you are a minor (under 18), and he's an adult (over 18), even if you consent to the sexual activity, he could still get into serious legal trouble, because in the eyes of the law you do not have the "right" to consent to sex at a young age, and he could be arrested and convicted of a variety of crimes. Also, if you are new to sexual experiences, I hope you have some adult family members, friends, doctor, or other trusted people you can talk to to get the rest of your questions answered. Please, above all, be safe and don't do anything because someone forces you, manipulates you, or tells you they love you (when all they really want is a few minutes of pleasure). You deserve to be safe and loved for who you ARE, not what you DO.
2007-02-21 19:31:27
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answered by andromedasview@sbcglobal.net 5
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it all depends on the guy most guys enjoy it when pulling back the skin u must do it uniform by pulling Back and forth use your hands as a guide and make sure u have a good amount of saliva on it there nothing worse then rub burn
2007-02-21 19:18:28
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answered by Firstquarter 2
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