How many lads out there would go into a relationship with a girl who tells them that she has genital herpes?

Question

THE STORY IS MY GIRLFRIEND OF 3 YEARS HAS JUST SPLIT WITH ME SHE TOLD ME WE NEEDED SOMETIME APART AND SHE HOPED WE COULD SORT THINGS OUT IN THE FUTURE. THEN I HEAR SHE IS SEEING SOMEONE ELSE. WEEKS INTO OUR RELATIONSHIP SHE TOLD ME SHE HAD GENITAL HERPES BUT I LOVED HER SO SO MUCH I DIDNT CARE. I AM STILL GUTTED OVER THE SPLIT. AND I WAS SORT OF HOPEING THAT THIS NEW LAD WOULD BE SCARED OFF WITH HER LITTLE PROBLEM MAYBE I SHOULD OF BEEN. I HAVE HAD LOADS AND LOADS OF TESTS TO CHECK IF I AM IN THE CLEAR AND THANK GOD I AM. AM I BETTER OF WITHOUT WHAT DO YOU LADS THINK OUT THERE

Answer 1

Actually I know several guys that would date a girl even if she has genital herpes.

I have had genital herpes for over 6 years now and not one guy has ever ran away from me when I told them I had genital herpes. They all chose to date me and be with me regardless of my STD. I even met and dated a guy for a little while who also had genital herpes.

You even said so yourself that it didn't bother you when you first got with her, so I'm sure there are other guys out there that it wouldn't bother either. At least you never got the virus from her!

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Answer 4

I used to see a woman that had herpes. She told me BEFORE we ever got together. She used to take meds to control it, she never had an outbreak all the time we were together, and if she even thought she might be getting an outbreak she would not be intimate with me. She had been previously married for 7 years and her husband never had any problems. We used condoms at first but ended up riding bareback later on, I had no problems then and have no problems now years later. She has since remarried and while I can't say for sure I'd wager her and her husband ride bareback and don't worry about it.
As a guy you gotta know, if you have herpes its a curse of sexual death, all that much more difficult to find a partner, for a woman just a minor inconvenience, there will always someone wanting to be with her.

Answer 5

My best friend has had genital herpes for about eight months now, and it's been really rough. She's had about 7 outbreaks. Everywhere I read it says it stops flaring up so much after time, but its not getting less frequent for her. She's been on Antiviral meds the whole time, too. She also has type 1 diabetes which she has had her whole life, which really weakens her immune system. Will it ever get better?

But after a friend share this video everything has changed.
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Answer 6

Oh my God! You are better off without her. I don't say this because of her herpes . I mean because she broke up with you after 3 years and then dated other guys right away. Ok why did she leave you? If she descides to have children she will have a risky pregnancy then she will have to have a C-section instead of natural birth. Your children could have the desease and may even have developmental problems. Remember this is a desease that has NO cure. Yes there are medication to slow down the outbreaks BUT the desease is always there. Find yourself another girl!

Answer 7

At least she was honest about it, so many peope arent and they end up spreading it to others. If you really love her I wouldn't let it get in the way of a relationship. I'm a girl, but if that happened to my bf, and I really loved him I don't think it would stop me from being with him . As far as the nut saying that you shouldnt have babies if you have herpes this simply isnt true. Generally if you dont have an actual outbreak at the time you can deliver vaginally however if there is an outbreak they will take the baby via c-section...but back to your girlfriend, if you love her and really want to b with her I wouldn't let it stop you..

Answer 8

Whether or not you are better off without her is independent of her virus - and it is a virus, not a disease, as someone put it. You happily went out with her for 3 years while she had the virus so her virus shouldn't suddenly be a problem to you now - I think you are conveniently bringing it up to make yourself feel better.

We all get hurt, but don't damage the girl because of a virus she has no control over. You know the saying - if you love someone set them free, if they come back they are yours, if they don't, they were never yours to begin with.

I commend you though for not letting the virus get in the way of a beautiful relationship to begin with. I think that is a reflection of your good character.

Also re: the comment about guys getting the virus vs girls - I disagree. The virus doesn't discriminate, it's equally as hard for girls and guys.

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Answer 9

it potential u have the herpes virus on your physique. hsv1 will ensue as chilly sores and hsv2 will ensue on your genitals yet the two could be actual circulate ed from oral to genital and vise versa. I even have the two oral and genital herpes. my first outbreak of genital herpes replaced into very painful i had white blisters throughout down there and that they have got been itchy besides. my 2nd outbreak i recognized the indicators extra desirable and it replaced into no longer as undesirable. purely a heat unsightly tingling sensation then a large type of itching and soreness whilst the sores broke out. some say that their outbreaks are much less internecine I even have purely had 2 substantial outbreaks so i could no longer tell u that. i replaced into by no potential hospitalized and by twist of destiny i replaced into off from artwork whilst the outbreaks began. however i think of i might have stated as in unwell for the 1st couple of days of a deadly disease. regrettably u will by no potential understand what it feels like till u easily get herpes and that i wish u by no potential do simply by fact have confidence me it relatively is a few thing that u do no longer choose for to experience.

Answer 10

i wouldn't date a girl with herpes. i know that sounds really selfish, but its the truth for a lot of people. sorry!