her partner.Her parnter is a bit of a git and has treat her badly through there 5 yr relationship,so after an argument,cos he was flirting with another woman,she left him in the club and went somewhere else alone.Later on her partners mates came to the same club she was in and told her that he had left with the woman he had been flirting with.She was devastated so proceeded to get very drunk and ended up having sex with one of her partners mates she is awaiting results from the gum clinic but i dont know wat to suggest for her to do as she has had unprotected sex with her husband since this happened
2007-02-19 06:17:10 · 12 answers · asked by happylove_bunny 2 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
Unfortunately if the results come back that she has contracted something she'll have no choice but to come clean because lets say she did then the GUM clinic would treat her for it and then if shes had sex with him prior to her treatment and passed it on to him she'd only end up being re-infected by him when she next slept with him. Goodluck to her x
2007-02-21 05:45:33 · answer #1 · answered by doodlebip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats exactly how stds stay around. be aqn adult two cheating doesnt't make it right or grown up. Now look what happened. She need to be honest with him. he has a right to know and teh earlier things are treated the better. He deserves to know. wouldn't you want to know? its not really a choice you have any more. you can be charged now for any kind of std if they can prove you knew...
2007-02-21 00:46:23 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs.Vick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to go to a doctor and get checked out..she may not have caught anything and might be able to avoid a situation with her partner..she should then go out..get a nice new man and have some safe fun
2007-02-19 06:57:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for the results - if clear - keep quiet - if not she's got infected - and to be honest if it ends a crap 5 years for her it
won't be the end of the world - ps how does she know he didn't
catch anything first ....???? think about it ? who knows who gave who what
tell her to find a nice man who will treat her with respect
2007-02-19 06:24:07 · answer #4 · answered by UC BLUES -Jose 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
your friend seems a bit immature,to sleep with someone because she thought her husband ws flirting..even if he was this is no reason to lower herself to casual sex..there must be problems within thier marridge apart from this ..i am not saying your friend is a bad person at all,but i think she and her husband need to talk about thier marridge..for the sake of his health she needs to be onest and he he can get himself checked out,but i can promise you are are deeper problems here and your friend needs to talk to her husband and they might decide to see "relate"..whatever the reason support her and her husband..do not take sides..they are both at falt here.
2007-02-19 09:49:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to go to her local std clinic asap and her husband will need to go to.
2007-02-19 06:25:12 · answer #6 · answered by richard_beckham2001 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her not to be such a dirty trollop and keep her bloody knockers on in future.
For the love of god, if she's that bloody stupid to fall for that old chestnut then she deserves to have something wrong with her lady garden, and then run the risk of passing it onto her old man, a good swift kick in the seat of her loose knickers would'nt go a miss!
2007-02-19 09:51:29 · answer #7 · answered by The Original Highbury Gal 6 · 1⤊ 4⤋
You need to tell her husband so he can be checked as well. Your friend may have just killed him. Also buy the slutty chick some condoms. There is no excuse for random unprotected sex these days.
2007-02-19 06:38:32 · answer #8 · answered by Tim 2 · 1⤊ 5⤋
ya that's a very bad situation
2007-02-19 06:25:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get medical check up done asap
2007-02-19 06:20:10 · answer #10 · answered by Ashish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋