I just found out out that I might have , potentially, syphilis (std); however,?

Question

it's not confirmed yet, as second blood test report is not due for another 3 weeks. I've been really really stressed out about this. I have no idea how to tell my husband about it. Did he give it to me or could it be the result from my previous affair? How can I get my husband tested without jeopadizing our relationship. I just can neither afford to lose him, nor my self-being. HELP????

Answer 1

You had an affair? That's selfish. You had unprotected sex and now you might/could infect your husband with a dreadful disease? That's heartbreaking. Your husband is innocent. Should you have sypphilis I suggest you tell him, it may not be easy but you have to cause if you don't and he finds out later that you infected him (hypotheticaly speaking) (hypotheticallly speaking again he knows he is innocent and he never had an affair) your relationship will be over.
I know there is no way of telling the one you love something that terrible but the truth has a way of coming out.
I hope you have learnt a lesson from this though, that affairs are the most stupid.....things married couples can do.
Good luck, for your health as well as your marriage I hope you don't have it. Marriage is sacred....that's one thing you should remember.

Answer 2

I am sorry for your problems. You are in an awful situation. You really must tell your husband. Here is a question you may not have considered. Has your husband infected you from some indiscretion on his part. I hope you two have a good line of communication going for you. God Bless.

Answer 3

well this is blunt but you cant do anything about it. if you have it, you have it. i no its hard but you 2 will have to move on and deal with it. does he know about the affair? you have to tell him if you have the disease it is serious. may i suggest counceling and bringing him to a therapist to tell him? that way a professional can help you 2 sort it out. good luck!